So I Fucked Up Big

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  1. Firebird_T/A

    Firebird_T/A New Member

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    So i got caught cheating on my gf and we had a big fight and shit was said to her, stuff i didn't mean but i was pissed off at the time. I need suggestions on what i could do to get her back, i love her more then anything, and i want to make things right.
     
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    What were you pissed off about? You should probably move on too, because things will never be the same.
     
  3. Firebird_T/A

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    i came home to find my computer shit missin and the power wires cut, that's what set me off i was like wtf and i went off on her, knowing i woulda probably done the same thing if i where in her shoes
     
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    cheating = deal breaker, don't expect to have her back
     
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  6. MattThom01

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    you cheated on her....i have doubts about you loving her more than anything.

    You're not going to get her back.
     
  7. Pseudonym

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    this man is correct
     
  8. SexCells

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    Why would she want to be with someone who treated her like shit. Lied to her, used her, manipulated her, and put her at the bottom of his list? You fucked up, grow up, move on.
     
  9. SexCells

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    unless she is completely retarded, in that case i wouldn't want someone that stupid
     
  10. Abomb

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    if shes really needy and dependent you can easily get her back
     
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  13. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    If you loved her more than anything then you wouldn't have cheated on her. Quit lying to yourself, you don't really care about her. Leave her alone so she can go find a guy worth her time.
     
  14. Cherry Red

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    He was mad at me cuz I invited him over and he didn't want to and I said thats okay i'm going to read my book.

    Okay I may have been wrong to take apart his computer and hide the parts in all different spots of his house but at least i'm not the cheater
     
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    if you were relaly in love with a woman youd never hurt her by betraying her, lying to her, or putting her in harm's way.
     
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    hey, you fucked up. don't worry about it, everybody fucks up, usually multiple times in life. It's over now. Just try to move on.
     
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    I think Cheaters could truly care for/ love their SO , but its really hard to believe that you love someone if you would destroy them like that.
     
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    g/f is on OT! :bowdown: Good girl! This thread sounded like a pity party he wanted to throw, he knew you were on here.

    OP, that was a great way of showing your love, that word should only be used if you truly mean it.
     
  19. makemedie

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    God. This is so hard. I've like...got a really empty English lexicon or something...cos honestly? I dont understand that. So lemme get this right...

    ...YOU...cheated on her...but...YOU...are pissed? Wha?

    Anyway, so. Define "cheated". What did you do? Sleep with another woman? Just kiss another woman? I dunno, people have different definitions for "cheating".
     
  20. Bruticus

    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    :rofl: YOU cheat and get mad at her :bowrofl: I'm sure you deserved everything that happened.
     
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    You cheated, it'll never be the same, no point in trying. And why are YOU pissed? Because she caught you? :rofl:
     
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    He ditched me on friday night, knew I was at his house still didn't come home, went out with his ex to "help her move" into her new place she "jumped" on him and then he accidentally grabbed a condom accidentally put it on and acidentally fucked her and spent the night.
    According to him he didn't mean for it to happen :hsugh:
     
  23. Cerridwen

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    If you're really his girlfriend, you'd be an absolute MORON to take him back. Save yourself the heartache and forget all about him. Have fun laughing at his pitiful posts though :mamoru:
     
  24. Abomb

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    you should take him back gf
     
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    Emo girl will take him back
     

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