So I found out something about my gf last night....

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  1. killerZees

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    She does self-injury.... Is this a deal breaker? Would I be shallow if I broke it off because of this? Is this somethign that can lead to suicide?
     
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    So, how long have you been with the girl?

    The tricky thing is, you don't want to be in the position of giving her attention because she hurts herself. That makes things MUCH, MUCH worse.
     
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    Ive been with her a month.
     
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    I don't know about leaving her or not. If you stay, don't go giving her attention because of her problem. Make sure you don't tell her more than once not to hurt self.
     
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    I guess everyone has issues. I was just trying to find someone with out serious psychological ones.
     
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    the min she starts getting manipulative, run. otherwise, see where it goes.
     
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    Yup, immediately. It shows ALOT of problems, not just the fact that she injurs herself. She has attention problems, is probably manipulative, and the immaturity involved in such an act is outrageous.

    I would drop her immediately, tell her to get herself help. If she is a minor, tell her parents to get her some help. Don't get attached though, she will use it against you sooner or later.

    You can be her friend to a certain extent, but I wouldnt start a relationship with someone like that. And if you are her friend, then you will do what needs to be done to get her real help.
     

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