SRS So I finally asked a girl out v. second time v. rate my date

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  1. macistaniMac

    macistaniMac New Member

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    Background: About a year ago, I was really freaking fat. Had been all life. No self esteem, etc. Got serious about losing weight. Look relatively normal. I'm 24 and have next to no dating experience. I previously dated a close friend for 4 months -- that's the extent of my dating experience.

    Foreground:
    Asked a girl out (we had met socially a few times -- at first I didn't like her, but she grew on me) and she said yes. In my super-creativeness, I decided to do the movie & dinner thing. Went to the movie, about ten minutes in I decided "what the hell" and went ahead and put my arm around her. We ended up cuddling with a little like touching (nothing really sexual, just generic touch-things like rubbing fingertips on palms/forearms/knees/etc). [We were also the annoying people in the theater who whispered smart-ass comments to each other, but we tried not to disturb the other 4 folks in the theater]

    Went to dinner, she talked quite a bit and we seemed to really hit it off. There wasn't much touching at dinner (across a table), but I noticed her pupils were dilated (if that matters). We continued talking all the way back to her dorm (I drove -- live in an apartment) and dropped her off.

    She leaned across the car and gave me a big hug and said she had a great time and a few other things. --the end--

    The Question:
    Rate the date, please comment, give advice, etc. Me == n00b at life.

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  2. Beezure

    Beezure Go Lightning!! OT Supporter

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    DON"T SWEAT IT, it's all good, just don't seem desperate and your in
     
  3. Jay Pheezy

    Jay Pheezy New Member

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    It's hard to tell for now. Just keep going with the flow see what happens next.

    Was it clear to her that it was a date and you guys weren't just going as friends?
     

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