UPDATE: so i finally asked a girl out v.first time finally grew balls and asked a co worker out. basically went up to her and asked when her next day off is and if she had plans. she says she never has plans. so i asked... and got the lunch date. i'm planning to pick her up @ her place and go out and get lunch. but wtf do I do from there. never done this even though i'm in my late 20's. other than the get to know the other person chit chat blah blah... let's say the lunch goes good.... would it be too soon to ask her for a real date at the end of lunch or when ever i drop her off? what to do? HELP!