so i figured out why i cum so fast but..

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  1. tehexile

    tehexile New Member

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    pardon my ridiculous inexperience and not knowing my own body.

    well last year, i was having sex constantly, but was way to fast for both our likings... we broke up, which turned out to be a good thing... dont want to go into it... anyways, so the other night i was with my current s/o and we were doing our thing... and i realized that i came too fast because when i would get precum, i would keep going and just orgasm and would be done. we were doing our thing, i asked her to stop when i felt that coming on, i spewed a little precum, cleaned it up, and she continued and i lasted much much longer.

    so i guess my question is how can i keep from orgasming when the precum starts, without completely stopping all touching and whatnot?
     
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    Dan-blackline Registered Sex Offender

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    Try sorta tensing your kegel muscle, the one that makes you stop peeing. And change position or something.
     
  3. Breaks

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    You could try those condom's that like numb your penis a little, not so much that you don't feel anything ( her virgina over your penis would still be feelable ) although not having ever tried them I can't really say how much they numb you. But I know that those are definitely an option for guy's that prematurely ejactulate. Although that kind of ruins the whole idea of sex as I personally hate the feel and wearing condom's.

    There are exercise's you could do that I heard of on some sex documentary on tv about couple's having issue's like this where supposably if you masturbate and upon nearing the point of no return ( as any guy know's when he's about to ejactulate ) you just stop. As hard and killer as that's going to be they said this help's you get used to not ejactulating.

    Or you could just try masturbating before having sex. For example do your thing and ejactulate, then wait for another erection to come along ( in some cases it wont go away if your turned on enough by your partner ) and then have sex that way. Won't make the feeling any different but the final stretch at the end where your supposed to fill her won't be as heavy a load nor as great a feeling. But there will still be some sperm and feeling none the less.

    Another thing you could do is while in your girlfriend when your about to ejactulate, squeeze on the lower bottom of your penis to stop anything from happening. However this requires that you stop your in and out motion with your girlfriend to do so although you don't need to pull out.

    Or you could take a viagra, do your thing, blow your load and after continue until she has her orgasm. Although not as fun as you dont both orgasm at the same time you still both at least get one. Note: You could be left with a boner for hours after which would suck.
     

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