So, I don't cum when I have sex with my girl...

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  1. M.A. Malone Esq.

    M.A. Malone Esq. OT Supporter

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    we've only had sex a few times, but I just don't get off. The other night it was really weird because we were going at it for a while then she sucked me (which I have came from before with her) and still nothing. I was like, forget it, I'm just going to get myself off :o.... but that still took a while.... might have been the alcohol though.... :dunno:

    Not really sure what I'm looking for as far as responses go :o
     
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    PFC Lowell Velox et Mortifer

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    Don't jack off so much, it may sound like im trying to flame, but it works.
     
  3. M.A. Malone Esq.

    M.A. Malone Esq. OT Supporter

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    I woke up really horny so I did it this morning and I might see her tonite :o
     
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    are you on anti depressants or relaxers
     
  5. M.A. Malone Esq.

    M.A. Malone Esq. OT Supporter

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    no, but I was pretty enebriated.....

    the other few times we had sex, we either didn't have sex long or I already came from her sucking me off.... so the only time it was really a problem was the other night when she was basically pumping me full of alcohol :o
     
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    alcohol is definitely the culprit in this instance. never fails with me, though its a very fine line. if i have a certain number of drinks it increases staying power and i can still catch a nut, but as soon as you cross that line its next to impossible. if i plan on going out with my girl and getting absolutely wasted, i try to sex her up before we go out.
     
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    Alcohol can cause problems
    Getting off earlier can cause problems
    level of attraction can cause problems
    stress and other factors can cause problems

    which one it is for you, only you know...
     
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    :werd: on the booze....it is so frustrating. I have tried so hard and for so long that I have been really sore the next morning.
     
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    fucken hell, don't get so drunk then..

    Sober sex is always the best!
     
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    Easy to say for you as you do not have a drinking problem....:squint:
     
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    ur gay u just don't kno it yet:mamoru::hay:
     
  12. ninjakitty

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    I would say it could be the alcohol, but it could also be stress related or maybe even performance anxiety. I think some guys get so worried about being able to cum that they can't! As a woman, I can't say for sure, but I know men pretty well.
     
  13. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    i get so worried about cumming in under 10 that i cum in under 1! not rlly but that's the direction poor performance is for me.

    stop jacking off 12 hours before you see her.
     
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    Agreed...and also as some have mentioned, medication can have a huge affect on things...so if you take any meds..that can affect things...

    Combine that with Alcohol...not a good combo.

    If it is just once though, chill out....Stamina can be good.

    There are times where me and the wilfe are having sex and I can go forever and have no desire to cum. It usually occurs when the sex is REALLY HOT and good...the reason? cause I am just enjoying getting her off soooo much...that I dont' care about me.

    So as you can see, it is okay NOT to cum or not to cum quickly
     

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