So I contracted chlamydia....

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  1. itsallaboutvegas

    itsallaboutvegas New Member

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    I've been with this girl for a bit now, and I guess she didn't know she had it - which seems to be very common with this disease. So I went to the doctor, had some testing done, found out that I had contracted it from her, and I am currently on antibiotics. The good thing is, it's almost out of my system; the bad thing is, she's not going until tomorrow to do some testing. From my experience, it takes 15 days to get your results back, and another 10 days to finish the treatment. So I brought this up to her yesterday, and we were both very upset about the fact that we had to remain sexually inactive for about a month. She then proposed using a condom, and I told her I would think about it. The fact that it will be out of my system and still in hers, kind of makes me think a little. I was hoping for a few opinions, because we are probably having sex about 3 times a day now, and it's killing us both. Should I risk it with a condom??
     
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    :rofl: this is why you got in the first place. wrap that thing. you should be happy that's all you got.
     
  3. uwofrost

    uwofrost New Denver Crew

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    FAIL DIAF!!!:ughpoon:
     
  4. Justin Niggalake

    Justin Niggalake New Member

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    i know we are supposed to be serious in the subforums but :rofl:

    and if she had it all along, makes you wonder what kinda girl she was before you guys got together :squint:
     
  5. itsallaboutvegas

    itsallaboutvegas New Member

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    I know, and to be honest, I think it would probably be more her getting upset than me. And yes, I should have wrapped it in the first place....STUPIDITY on my part.
     
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  7. squid

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    Dude, she is diseased. If you have sex with her unprotected, you will be diseased too. You should propose not putting your pen0r into her hoo-ha until she gets fixed, and using a condom every time thereafter.
     
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  9. Joybang

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    15 days for your results? I had a test done a couple weeks ago and I had mine the next day (negatives). Shit, the letter from the doc saying it was negative was in before 15 days.
     
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    better get yourself tested for everything as well just to be safe.
     
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    Dawt.

    If you havent done it already, make sure you get tested for everything under the sun. There are a lot of diseases you may not know you have until months or even years later.
     
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    seriously, why the hell are your test results taking so long to get in? i get tested every year, and theyre in MAX 3 days later.
     
  13. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    USE A CONDOM. Hope you learned a lesson.

    Oh, and talk to your/her doctor before attempting sex even with the condom to hear his thoughts.
     
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    I've seen clinics automatically give an Rx for the patient and the partner because they obviously have it too - without all the testing and stuff to prove she has it.

    If I were you, I wouldn't have any sexual play with her at all until you are both completely finished with your courses of antibiotics, and then I would go back and get everything checked again to make sure it cleared it. If she touches herself and then you guys touch hands and then you touch yourself, it's possibly for you to reinfect. So, don't think that just because you aren't "sticking it in" or you're wrapped that you're 100% safe.
     
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    I've had friends who've basically done the same thing - all they had to do was go to the dr/clinic and say "I've recently had sex w/someone who just found out they've got it" and they start them on meds right away....
     
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    I was tested for everything recently and it took around 2 weeks to get the results.
     
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    how do you know you got it from her, and she didn't get it from you? you could have had it for some time before realizing it.
     
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    Don't have sex with her until she's better :ugh:
     
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    lol, i got chlaymdia

    take some pills, move on :rofl:
     
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    I personally wouldnt go near that area on her body untill she is all better. Be smart about these kinds of things, condoms brake and if they do you are likely to get it agian.
     
  22. RedVsBlue

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    If any woman had ever given me an STD, she would be gone. If she isnt willing to take the time and get tested and verify she isn't diseased, she isn't worth my time.

    And if a guy isn't willing to step up and ask these questions (and do the same testing himself) then he deserves what he gets. No reason not to know if people have diseases you can get BEFORE you start fucking.

    And freaking out about going close to a month without sex :bowrofl:
     
  23. ustfdes

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    wow, so you will have to go without sex for a month or so....my wife was in iraq for a year. twice. be patient or grow up.
     
  24. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :ugh: You've had sex with girls that you never asked if they'd been tested. Don't know why you're so shocked.
     
  25. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Did you sleep with your ex w/o a condom? You said recently that having a bf/gf is best because you don't "need" to wear a condom so am I to believe you've always used a condom unless you knew for sure they were tested?
     

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