SRS So I am a RETARD

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  1. SovietRussia

    SovietRussia What? You pooped in the refrigerator? OT Supporter

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    can someone walk me through asking out a girl, with whom i am friends with right now. although, some might think it cant be done, thats how the people roll in my small wisconsin town. she has been over everynight for a week. usually just chillin watchin a flick or two with her legs on my lap. i can tell she wants me, i just dont know how to get the fact that we might as well be dating out there smoothly. i dont want to be sitting there watching a movie, and then just blurt out, "hey, we should date!". :ugh:

    so PLEASE walk me through it. usually when i start dating girls, its because they are the aggressor towards me. :o and i am worried if i dont move on this girl, she will eventually think i am uninterested in her.

    thanks in advance for your help.
     
  2. Shiva Chaos

    Shiva Chaos i see boobies!

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    start holding her hand. move around so you're hugging her from behind.

    kiss her neck

    and let it flooooow
     
  3. SovietRussia

    SovietRussia What? You pooped in the refrigerator? OT Supporter

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    thats what i was thinking too. :o

    but i guess even though i can tell she is into me, i am still scared because she is like way out of my league hot. :o :o
     
  4. PuppyCat

    PuppyCat O.T. Mom

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    Just out of curisoity, if said girl is in fact wayyyyyyyyyyy of your league, then why is hanging out with you, putting her legs in your lap?

    It's fairly obvious to me that she ah, is at least, feeling safe and comfortable with you.

    Just let it happen.....Good Luck!:)
     
  5. Shiva Chaos

    Shiva Chaos i see boobies!

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    start rubbing her legs.


    massage her calves :o
     
  6. Shiva Chaos

    Shiva Chaos i see boobies!

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    and if she asks what you're doing, just say "you have nice legs" :dunno:
     
  7. JW2

    JW2 New Member

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    You need to move NOW... well you needed to move a long time before but you can't go back in time... If she's putting her legs on you, rub them... keep moving up... if she lets you put your hands on the inside of her thigh you're in. Green light from there... If she doesn't like you she won't let you do that. That's my experience anyway.... take it for what it's worth.
     
  8. Nick Gerz

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    [SIZE=-1]y helo thar buttseckz[/SIZE]
     
  9. SovietRussia

    SovietRussia What? You pooped in the refrigerator? OT Supporter

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    yeah, maybe i just think she is out of my league, because i used to be chubby, and now i am a lot less chubby, and lookin pretty damn good now.

    but i still see myself as that chubby kid that couldnt get girls i guess.:hsd:
     
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    kakariko Purple Member OT Supporter

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    i agree.. start holding her hand and get more touchy with her.. the majority of my relationship have progressed from "friendship" to "dating" without me even saying the words.. let it flow

    hey!! is that you in your av?? :cjerk:
     
  11. DiggityDogg

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    Tell her you are tired of hanging out watching movies and instead you are going to take her out to dinner. Have a place and time in mind, as well as a backup option if she is unavailable for your first option. Go on the date, make it a good time, and then once it's over go for the kiss.
     
  12. johan

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    Go with this advice^^ forget the posts about stroking her legs or unannounced buttsex :rolleyes:

    Remember, Don't wimp out at the end. Go in for the kiss. The rest of the evening is just prep for this moment.

    If she backs off, be a man, don't sulk about it. Good luck.
     
  13. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    Don't talk about dating, just make a move. At least kiss her when she goes to leave.
     
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    Do you know what shrimping is? :wiggle:
     
  15. SovietRussia

    SovietRussia What? You pooped in the refrigerator? OT Supporter

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    meh. thanks for the help all, but i think i got it figured out. we got into some drinkin last night, and started kissin and shit, and ended up talkin for a while, and decided we both have an attraction for eachother and decided to get together and shit.

    beer > me. :hs:
     
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    lmao, when all else fails, alcohol comes to save the day! :mamoru:
     
  17. N-Word-Jim

    N-Word-Jim Cure for boredom

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    alcohol > * in awkward situations

    Glad it worked out :)
     
  18. SovietRussia

    SovietRussia What? You pooped in the refrigerator? OT Supporter

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    meh. it might work out. might not. i still think she is out of my league, so i dont think that is going to be very good to start a relationship with me feeling inferior to her in a way. also, she said something like she wanted to take it slow and not be exclusive right away, as to we can still sleep with other people. :ugh: so im not that confident its going to work out, but hey, it might be fun, so i might as well go with it, since i have nothing better to do.
     
  19. DiggityDogg

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    You are going to lose this girls attraction. Personally, if I were her I would have gave up a long time ago. It does nothing to build chemistry when someone thinks so little of themselves and hesitates constantly.

    If you want to hook up, then confidently hook up. Geez. You are making this harder than it is. Drop all self doubt and the next time you want to kiss, lean in and do it. If she is down and starts kissing heavily and you want to initiate the next step, then do it. If she doesn't like that then stop but do not apologize because that is a normal process when things get heavy. The last thing you want to do is pass up a chance when she is expecting you to go further.
     
  20. johan

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    Practice until you can do it without alcohol. Alcohol just loosens the inhibitions. You don't do anything with alcohol that you didn't already know how to do.
     
  21. haargerman

    haargerman ayuh.

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    Hold her hand.

    #1 way to tell a girl you like her.
     
  22. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    Easiest way? Start rubbing her feet, ask her "So we've been hanging out a lot lately.... I wouldn't mind making this exclusive, how 'bout you?"
     
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    Stop Thinking She Is Out Of Your League. That Will Only Be Flattering But For So Long.


    oh, and congrats on the drunken makeout. :)
     
  24. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    Did she actually mention sleeping with other people? If she just wants to take it slow then there's nothing wrong with that.
     

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