So how do you successfully friendzone girls?

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  1. antihero

    antihero OT Supporter

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    I really have no idea how to just make friends with girls.

    Lets assume you are starting in a pickup enviroment like a bar, and you realize the girl you are talking to is cool enough to be friends with but for whatever reason thats as far as its going... What next, [edit] assuming you actually do want some girls as just friends?
     
  2. MattThom01

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    Generally, don't worry about it. I mean, seriously, if you want to just be friends with a girl, what's there really to worry about?

    But in general, hang out with her a lot, talk to her a lot, don't flirt, etc.
     
  3. antihero

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    So just wait for her to get the hint when i fail to get physical?

    I flirt with all girls :noes:
     
  4. MattThom01

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    It's not hard to friendzone a girl. Just do nothing romantic. Talk over IM, ask to hang out with her and her friends together, give her advice on guys...
     
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    talk to her about her guy problems, that will definitely do the trick
     
  6. RedVsBlue

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    I dont think its something you HAVE to do. Just be friends with a female, they arent like guys where they want to be your friend to get further later.

    All you have to do to become friends with a female is have an ear to listen, and then show interest in what they are saying.
     
  7. antihero

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    But what do you do to drop the romantic expectation? I dont want her disapointed and confused when i bring friends whenever we hang out or don't try anything.
     
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    what romantic expectation. People dont really get expectations like that unless you give them a reason too. But, if for some reason you just want to be friends with a chick who obviously wants more, then you best bet is to just set the record straight and let her know you want to be friends.

    Just do what you would want someone to do to you in this situation :dunno:

    Or you could hook up with one of her friends, that usually gets the point across...
     
  9. antihero

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    seems like a great idea, but why would a girl be dumb enough to talk to a guy they met at a bar about her guy problems? :dunno:
     
  10. Toda Party

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    Heres where the following advice comes in handy(if you're not good at having women feel attraction for you)-


    JUST BE YOURSELF :mamoru:
     
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    ever been to a bar? ever met a female that just needs someone who will listen? you should cause they are everywhere. Its amazing what an open ear will do for a friendship, especially with a female
     
  12. antihero

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    Hmm.. im not sure if hooking up with her friends when she thinks im trying to hook up with her would really go over well.
     
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    kinda sarcasm...i guess i should have used more of these ...:) :naughty: :rofl: :wiggle: :noes: :x: :wavey: :cool: :fawk: :mamoru: ;) :bigthumb:
     
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    :rofl: i know, i was kidding. Im not that much of a noob
     
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    yeah, i have a term for those girls: "waste of my time" :hs:
     
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    so listening to someone else is a "waste of your time", yet you want to make friends with females? :rofl:

    :hsugh:
     
  17. PocoDiablo

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    Why would you want to make friends with a girl? Is she going to help you swap that transmission? She wants to hear about all the skanks you nailed? Oh, I know, you want make-up tips?

    Look, this whole guys and girls being friends thing is stupid. You want to nail her, and you think that being friends first will get you in her pants. You need to ask her on a date. Women don't want male friends, they want male partners and leaders.
     
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    The Secretary My domestic skills will rock your socks off!

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    Tell her its just friendship relationship not anything else. :dunno:
     
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    tell her you are already hooked.
     
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    bimmer318 I'm out of applesauce

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    I can't be friends with a girl. It will not work, I will just leave her.....Even if I am not attracted to her.
     
  21. antihero

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    Ive always had female friends. I live in a house of guys and usually there are at least a few girls who just show up to hang out and such... I dunno, lately i kind of miss having a few cool girls in the crew, as we have lost all our housegirls.

    and in a more functional way, having girls around actually does help you nail more skanks. when you have girls in your company girls generally percieve you as less of a wolf on the hunt.

    If i wanted to have sex with her, i would know exactly how to procede.
     
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    HAHA, this man speaks truth!
     
  23. Socrates

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    Almost 100% of the time, either the boy or the girl secretely harbors feelings for the other one, and it eventually comes out.

    If you have enough discipline to not show your feelings towards the girl, she will eventually show hers, and you end up being the bad guy by nicely turning her down.

    The girl would have to be single, otherwise boyfriend issues would come up, unless her boyfriend is a lot better looking than you. And when she is single, sparks will fly.

    My advice: Make it a point to befriend lesbians.
     
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    I cannot tell you how many wild threesomes or moresomes I have had due to knowing women who were openly bi or lesibians.

    Straight women? Not so often.

    Women who were friends? Never happened once.
     
  25. Falconer

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    I have female friends who are just friends. I'm not kidding. I have 0 attraction for them. They might have attraction toward me, but according to ladder theory, girls can just "be friends" with a guy. Also according to ladder theory, guys cannot just "be friends" with a girl. So why can I? I swear there is no sexual attraction there, but I still like having her as a friend because she's smart and fun to talk to. Is she my "intellectual whore?"
     

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