LGBT So how do you let people know you're gay?

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  1. Naturally Baked

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    Say you're in a coffee shop and wanted to maybe see if that cute guy sitting across from you likes to take cock in his ass, what cues or signals are you looking for? I tried getting my dick hard and making sure it was visible through my pants but that didn't work :wtc:
     
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    Eye contact?
     
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    ugh i hate the staredown
     
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    They Ask, if its relevant to the situation, I tell them
     
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    Brief eye contact with a friendly nod can say a lot...the staredown is fucking creepy!
     
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    :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:
     
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    ...or...you could try to make your hardon visible through your pants :ugh:


    He was well aware that you're a raging faggot. Maybe he just wasn't interested?
     
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    You're a fucking dumbass if you think someone isn't actually into me...he obviously saw my hard on but probably thoguht I meant it for the girl behind him. You couldnt miss it, I even posted on CL saying to follow me into the bathroom if he wanted some
     
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    :rofl:

    And note to self. Stop doing the stare down.
     
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    this

    a moment after eye contact, i'll throw a nod or a half smile.

    if i get a response...BAM penis in the butthole
     
  12. camarosrool

    camarosrool yes i am

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    see this is the part i have trouble with

    what kind of response are you looking for?

    usually when I get a nod or a half smile I grab the guys dick, but so far it has been slightly unsuccessful
     
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    it's usually the same, a nod or grin :dunno:
     
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    well its easier to take that as "yes" there because that is where ALL the gays live :eek3:
     
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    that does help, it's also one of the bigger reasons i moved here. :bigthumb:

    i picked up a guy in my optometrist office this way, we were playing hide the sausage within days.
     
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    philvia SUCKIN ON MY TITTIES LIKE YOU WANTIN ME CALLIN ME

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    I usually find that asking him out on date pretty much lets him know you're gay.
    If he says "no thanks", he's either not on your team or he's not interested... either way, it's all good.
     
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    I find it funny that my brother and his girlfriend (closest family I have) still don't know. Since August, everyone back home knows, and my two main circles of friends out here in AZ know, but we just haven't been hanging out with those people together. I had originally figured it would just come up on it's own a week or two after I first came out, but 3 months later, still nothing. I figure sooner or later one of them will ask me if I've gotten any action lately, and I'll just be like, "Oh yeah I sucked Jeff's dick last week. Surprise, I'm banging dudes now."

    Funny enough, last year when I was living with them and discussing a strategy for ending things with this extremely clingy girl who turned out to have a record of attempting suicide any time a guy breaks up with her, I (closeted at the time) suggested I tell this girl I'm struggling with my identity as a homosexual and was trying to make myself straight, but I've finally accepted who I am. Brothers girlfriend is all "come on Steve, let's be realistic here, nobody is going to buy that you could possibly be gay." I just went :hsugh: :mamoru:
     
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    If I know they're gay, I let them know about my sexuality, otherwise it's noone's damn business. Now if someone asks me I'm not ashamed of who I am or what I like and will be honest.

    I don't get asked a lot cause I don't give off that vibe but someone with decent gaydar can tell....
     
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    I'm not the type to ask out people I just met for the first time unless we've already been talking for at least half an hour. Personally, I'd just start talking in a friendly way, and at some point maybe 15-20 minutes into the conversation, just find some sort of a topic where I can mention I'm bi without it being awkward. Since just about anyone I tell give me a bit of a surprised look, I'll then say something like "hah, don't worry I'm not gonna hit on anyone unless I actually know they're gay," and depending on their reaction, jokingly (but with just a hint of seriousness) tell them that if they ever find themselves feeling curious, they're welcome to give me a call. I figure if they're gay they'd say something at that point, and if they don't, then they're either straight, or if they are gay they aren't interested in me anyway.
     
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    I have Prada sunglasses.

    That usually does it.
     
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    My usual outfit of old pants covered in grease and wood chips and t-shirts that say things like "I'M AM AMERICAN SO I ORDER IN ENGLISH!!!" and "The ATF: Alcohol Tobacco and Firearms... Who's bringing the chips?" certainly don't help when it comes to letting strangers I'm available for men as well.
     
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    :rofl:

    How old are you?
     

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