so guys, after you and your gf of 4.5 years part ways...

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  1. Tk

    Tk Well-Known Member

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    what do you do with all the shit she gave you?

    like my gf gave me a bunch of picture frames with pics of us and whatever..... i took all the pics out to hold on to and gave the frames to my mom.... she asked what i did with this quilt that my ex made me that was, all in all, pretty neat but had pictures of us on it too.... i had it hanging on my wall above my bed but i took it down and pretty much threw it away. my mom was all disappointed and shit that id do that.... i told her that shits over and what did she want me to do, hold on to it for the rest of my life? anyhow, idk, what should i do with it? just toss it or keep it for a year or so then toss it or what? i dont see getting back together with her, at least any time soon (like 8 months or so ya know?) so wtf do i do? i had no problem putting it in the garbage sack while i was cleaning the shit out of my room but now my mom made me feel all guilty because "she put a lot of love into it" :hsugh:

    idk help a brotha out
     
  2. Guz200sx

    Guz200sx The man who does more than he is paid for will soo

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    the stuff that I had of my ex GF (6 months) i sent it back to her. It was like some pictures and a book I had borrowed. But some other stuff I had of her like pictures I packed it into my closet. I had a picture like western style of us both that we took and I put that away in my closet. I know if I move, I'll have to pull that shirt out prolly. I put the mini one away too....the shirts she gave me for my birthday, I dunno if i'll ever wear them again :(

    All the pics I had of her and me and her daughter on my phone I deleted them all....i kind of regret it now but its done. The other pics I had of her are on my old computer that is broken now.

    I dunno....if i had a quilt made by her I might keep that cause a lot of effort was put into it i guess but i would prolly pack that shit away or given it to my mom if she wanted it.
     
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    huntz0r New Member

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    Burn it.

    Nah, I dunno... I still have a stuffed doggy back home that my ex made for me. Kinda makes me feel fuzzy to look at even though I despise her now.

    weird, ain't it?
     
  4. Riot

    Riot OT Supporter

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    just keep a couple of momentos

    later on down the road when you're completely over everything, it'll be nice to have that record of that phase of your life
     
  5. pholom

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    yeah... i burnt up the pictures of my ex in my wallet and now i kinda regret it. I got the same pics in my closet packed in a box though with everything she gave me.

    I say..put everything into a box and just remember the good times that you two shared together.
     
  6. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    Just pack it away in a box somewhere so that if you want it later you'll still have it but at least you won't have to see it all the time.
     
  7. RedDawg

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    i'd say store it since you said theres a possibility of getting back with her in the distant futue
     
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    k0in b4hd New Member

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    BURN IT ALL, trust me
     
  9. Martinj

    Martinj New Member

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    Depends on how the break up went.
     
  10. Tk

    Tk Well-Known Member

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    we just drifted apart.... our interests are in different things completely..... break up went fine for both of us.
     
  11. antihero

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    dont get rid of stuff over drifting apart. 4.5 years is a lot of time. just remember the good times. dont destroy something like a quilt.
     
  12. Abomb

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    pack n put away
     

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