SRS so confused with this girl....

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  1. kenzo

    kenzo New Member

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    i want to make this short as possible....

    we met thur work, but we never talked during work,i was new there.
    I decided to talk to her, since i find her a bit attractive...
    so i said hi, she is quite shy..., then that was the end of our talk... she quit the job, i quit the job later 3 weeks..

    then half a year later , she finds me in this website, (similar to myspace).
    we started talking on msn alot, then a month later, she visited me at work.
    that time i didnt like her.. i liked her best friend...
    so i talked to her best friend alot more , while talking to this girl too...

    2-3 months later, i asked her best friend out.. we holded hands and stuff.
    then next day, the girl told me her best friend doesnt want to see me again since she really likes this one guy...

    so now i was pissed, so i decided to ask the girl from work to go out...
    we got it together, started chilling, i held her hand, on our 1st going out..

    the 2nd time we went out... we make out, and stuff on my bed.. and went out holding hands in the beach

    but heres the fucked up part.. she still doesnt take me as her boyfriend...

    she says she not ready for a serious relationship, and is still seriously hurt from her previous crush..
    she says she doesnt have trust in me yet.. and she sorta likes me

    but everything we do is like going out.. and she still doesnt trust me as her bf...
    we are still planning to go out.. i bet we be making out and holding hands

    wtf is this
    ..........
    im so confused
    i feel like im being fooled around
    i know i liked her best friend, but i told her i dont like her anymore

    im not going to read it over and edit it , since im tired...
    sorry
     
  2. kenzo

    kenzo New Member

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    i just want some little explaination of this

    i just asked her juss now, if she takes me seriously..
    she says yeah
     
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    Bleed New Member

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    Dude going out twice isn't being boyfriend/girlfriend. You need to give her more time, like 2-6 months depending on how the relationship develops. You don't plant a seed and come back the next day expecting a tree.
     
  4. Riconosuave

    Riconosuave New Member

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    Slow down, Kenzo. If you keep going like this, you'll freak her out, and you won't have anyone. I'm willing to bet you freaked out her best friend too.
     
  5. kenzo

    kenzo New Member

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    ok
    i understand thX

    the 1st girl, i doubt i freaked her out

    me and her had the talk today
    we all good now...
     

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