So after numerous attempts to becoming...

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  1. deznutz

    deznutz New Member

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    a boyfriend, i am now not going to "make effort" to get with a woman.

    I never had an "official" girlfriend..IN MY LIFE! I am 20 btw.

    So my situation:

    Girl becomes interested in me, we hit it off. Go on a few "Dates" and then i get too attached, and go overboard...bla blah..Then i think they get the "I got him" mentality..and then back off.
    So i am going to learn from my mistakes and not even deal with women right now.

    I am actually happier single.
     
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    This is how I met my fiance ... they day I gave up... I met her! :lol:
     
  3. Pringles

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    Personally I like my women assertive rather than shy. Thats why I let my ladies come to me. Some men like to be the outgoing type. I prefer to be the passive type that waits for them to come to me. Eitherway they tend to pick better than I do. However paitence was key for this and I'm not sure if you have enough to wait.
     
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    I have recently developed the attitude I dont give a shit. Im 24 years old and im pretty shy around woman. Always thinking of what their thinking of me, if they like me etc. I realized that when u dont try at all, you have a 0 chance and if u do try you have a 50/50. I think most people overlook that and are worried of feeling rejected or like an ass when you get shut down, but i dont care anymore. The only way you get better at things is practice and that goes with woman. YOu cant read books or ask for advice and think you can go out there and get anyone, that only helps. But the real test is in the playing field and you have to have a i dont give a crap attitude. Not cocky,but so what if she laughs or says no, there are only 9999999999999999999999999999999999999999 more woman out there and your chance of getting alot of yes answers is GREAT! I have made the same mistakes as you and will keep making more mistakes,but the more I make the less i will make later one. I have recently joined the gym and my confidence has went up alot from feeling better about myself and looking better. When i get into a situation where I want to meet someone, ill just start talking to them. I try to feel them out and go with what i feel is the best. I just dont care anymore, if i want to meet someone i see there is no one stopping me except myself and then i have no chance if i dont try. I know i missed out on so many woman before just because i didnt have the balls to make the move, no im getting more and more confident each day as I practive my skillls no matter where it maybe. Flirting with customers, just talking to random girls etc etc. If i was to keep going at the rate i was going, id have to take viagra before i got laid again
     

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