a boyfriend, i am now not going to "make effort" to get with a woman. I never had an "official" girlfriend..IN MY LIFE! I am 20 btw. So my situation: Girl becomes interested in me, we hit it off. Go on a few "Dates" and then i get too attached, and go overboard...bla blah..Then i think they get the "I got him" mentality..and then back off. So i am going to learn from my mistakes and not even deal with women right now. I am actually happier single.