SO afraid of sperm

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  1. FlyingHigh

    FlyingHigh New Member

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    She is too grossed out to get it on her.

    She won't give me head. I know I can't force anything upon her.

    Anyone else have the same problem?
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    How old is she? 17-?
     
  3. FlyingHigh

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    So I'm assuming she's never given head or hand job or anything involving sperm? Maybe thats an excuse for not being ready :dunno:

    Or maybe you should buy some flavored lube for BJ's or something....how is she specifically scared of it? The taste, having it get on her, ???
     
  5. mandarin orange

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    my ex would never give me head or let me cum on her.. it was a boring relationship sexually. my new gf is a freak in the bed. i love it. she will swallow, lets me cum on her face, her tits, loves it.

    maybe talk to her about it.. or watch some porns together?
     
  6. JustaMeThang

    JustaMeThang New Member

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    Is she afraid of her own cum?

    I wouldnt go down on her, finger her, I mean, nothing sexual at all. When she asks why, tell her you dont like bodily fluids. I bet you she'll change her tune in no time. Fair is far.
     
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  8. ///M Pilot

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    tell her it's a fat coagulant :)
     
  9. Coottie

    Coottie BOOMER......SOONER OT Supporter

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    she's a lesbo but hasn't yet come to terms with it...time to move on
     
  10. Chip Chipperson

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    who cares if she likes it. if she understands that if she won't do it, she's gone, she will do it
     
  11. lauren

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    i bet that would just result in a sexless relationship. :o
     
  12. sportsjunkie

    sportsjunkie OT Supporter

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    you should taste your own cum in front of her and then say:

    "see, no big deal"

    and see what happens
     
  13. JustaMeThang

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    At 20 yrs old, I cant think of a good reason why any girl would be afraid of cum. Either she isnt very mature, or she is selfish. Either way, he is losing out and if he keeps giving (and giving in), he'll continue to lose out.
     
  14. Coottie

    Coottie BOOMER......SOONER OT Supporter

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    exactly why I said she's a lesbo because there doesn't seem to be a good reason why she's afraid of it.....unless she's been raped or something like that.
     
  15. Jimeigh

    Jimeigh Every rook and jay in the corvidae have been raven

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    if she had that problem she wouldnt be my girlfriend.
     
  16. lauren

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    or shes just uptight and not sexual.
     
  17. Abomb

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    not every chick is a cum whore........................


    but in all seriousness some chicks really do NOT like sperm and theres nothing you can do to change this fact.

    dump and move on to a more open chick
     
  18. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    20? Yeah, she just sounds like a selfish brat to me. If I cared enough about someone I would do just about anything for them. As harsh as it may sound I'd give her an ultimatum....this is of course if this is something that truly bothers you and you don't see changing. If she makes some bullshit comment like "is sex all you care about?" then you can say no, but it is a big part of a relationship and her not willing to even try for you is selfish and you don't deserve to put up with it.
     
  19. KindlyCuddly

    KindlyCuddly Irina Lazareanu

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    Not everyone is willing to do "just about anything" for a sexual partner though and it doesn't make them a selfish brat. It makes them a person with boundaries they either feel they need to overcome or don't. If she doesn't want to overcome it and that's a problem for you then you're going to have to move on.
     
  20. Tiberium

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    looks like a perfect excuse to bust inside of her :bigthumb:
     
  21. Mr. Bungle

    Mr. Bungle *lube'n up the shock paddles*

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    Ok, first of all this is a sign of a past trama...for example:

    Maybe one of her previous boyfriends or sexual encounter had horrible awful nasty cum? Do I need to describe it? Or maybe your cum is nasty and she is to embarrassed to tell you to drink more water and some fresh fruit?

    Seriously this does happen. My first serious boyfriend had absolutely awful cum and I would never in a million years swallow or even allow it in my mouth...that didn't bother him (at least he never said anything about it, guess it wasn't a big deal to him). Flash forward to husband...I swallow, he cums where ever the wind takes him...BUT it took a while. I wanted to see his cum first not just chug it down without knowing. I got to smell it, see it (the amount is important, especially for a girl who has been traumatized). I had plenty of tasty juice near by to drink.

    This is getting long...basically though it is a mind game she is playing on herself. She is psyching herself up so much that the thought of cum in her mouth is just fucking gross...I know, I've been there. Lets just hope that it isn't your amount/taste/smell that makes her sick and it was someone from the past. Talk to her, go slow with her, and let her know the pleasure you get from swallowing...but that you are willing to pull out all the stops to make her feel comfortable and get use to it.

    In the end if all this fails...dump her you aren't sexually compatible.
     
  22. Yail Bloor

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    That's all you need to know right there.
     
  23. autobahn

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    dump her
     
  24. ACLdestroyer

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    I dont date bitches like this.

    Wont swallow? Afraid/grossed out by cum? = Get the fuck out of my bed and dont ever call me again.
     
  25. Bruticus

    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    Immature, move on.
     

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