Sleeping with somone again so its not

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  1. uwofrost

    uwofrost New Denver Crew

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    a One Night stand. Has anyone ever done this just so it doesnt seem as bad? Not that its really bad, but i have been thinking about this a lil bit. I have had a string of girls in the last few weeks and i found myself making sure i hooked up with them atleast a second time so that its not really a one nighter. :ughwerd:
     
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    yup, i've done it. still felt like a one night stand though. just x2

    btw - were you at The Liffey on saturday?
     
  3. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    This makes no sense to me. Even if you just sleep with them a second time and there's still no relationship it's still a one night stand :ugh:, just a second one.

    Sleeping with them a second time to make yourself feel less douchey makes no sense. Not that you are a douche if you have a bunch of one nighters :dunno:
     
  4. uwofrost

    uwofrost New Denver Crew

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    No have not been to liffey since st pattys weekend...

    i didnt go out this weekend. i had a friend fly in from LA and i hung out with him at his rents house on the lake.
     
  5. uwofrost

    uwofrost New Denver Crew

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    thats why i feel like its wierd that i have the urge to make it not... like its a techincality or something and wont be as bad if it 2x vs 1x... IDK
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Not at all. If anything it could possibly give the girl hopes you are actually into her. I mean if she's in for a FB situation then you are golden, but unless she states that she's probably into you if she wants to see you again.
     
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    uwofrost New Denver Crew

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    I dont think i have to worry too much about the wanting a relationship as i have stated that i am moving to CO to them so i know they shouldnt expect more... but girls will be girls
     
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    women want sex as bad as we do. I don't think they care if you're moving
     
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    Agreed... i have been just seeing one of the girls and its a good FWB setup...
     
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    :h5:

    one of the current ones i have that i thought was long history, just texted me and asked me to hook up for some non-commited sexy time :wiggle:
     
  11. Yail Bloor

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    sex is a bodily function

    this is like worrying about if its better to shit here or at the gas station

    or if its wrong to breathe
     
  12. chica&buddies

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    nope. never. if i decide that a one night stand is what i want with said particular guy, then i'll go for it.

    i never feel bad about my decisions, whether it be a one night stand or fwb situation. :dunno: girls like sex, too, ya know. ;)
     
  13. Dahlia

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    The sad thing is, is that the girls that do have one night stands get labeled as sluts, while the guys are labeled as gods for banging a skanky chick.

    Now, I'm not saying all do this, but it's the general consensus among most guys. (or atleast ones I have known/seen/hung out with)
     
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    yup, it's true. :rolleyes:

    :rant2: double standards.
     
  15. calisteph6

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    no, that's dumb. I've had one real one night stand cuz I didn't really know the dude. :ugh: and then the other one it was more of a friends boning cuz I still hang out with the dude, even though it was a one night stand. slightly less :ugh:, but I don't plan on doing him again just to feel better about myself.
     
  16. JordanClarkson

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    What do you consider a one night stand? Someone that you click with but only sleep with once...maybe you'll see each other at the bars again, but don't really communicate outside of that? Or a stranger that you hook up with once and never speak to again?
     
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    yes.

    for example... some girl friends and i took a road trip to pensacola beach. one of my friends had some relatives that owned a few houses on the beach, and they were kind enough to let us stay in them for a week. :bowdown: well, insert a bunch of partying and just fun crazy times. a friend of mine and i had our eyes on a couple of different guys, and we actually had set a little wager on who could score with their "man" first. :mamoru: :o :dunno: guys do it, too... :rofl: oh how i love blasts from the past...

    a one night stand doesn't necessarily mean that you don't ever see them again. in my particular example, i was visiting from out of town, so it's unlikely that i will see them again. however, if you meet someone at a bar and take them home for a night of fun, it's pretty likely that you might see them again if you frequent said bar quite often [and the other person does as well].

    :dunno: imo, a one night stand is usually a sexual encounter that happens due to being in the heat of the moment.
     
  18. antihero

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    thats one of the stupider things ive ever heard.

    seriously if you are a man and you think this passes for any sort of sense on any level you should be kicked in the balls.

    if you are a lesbian and this is just more backwards rationalization chick logic absurdity, carry on.
     
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    :bowrofl:
     
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    :rofl:

    It's still a "one-night-stand", you're just doing it twice as often!
     
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    :rofl::rofl:
     
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    :bowrofl: and :werd:

    People worry too much about these little things.
     
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    Shut up, slut.




















    I am kidding. :mamoru:
     
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    :squint:

    I like to have my fun, and if a guy is gonna label me as such he wasnt worth my time anyways, cuz there are plenty that do want my time. But, I still hate the double standard.

    And nice post count coldstone... been here shorter than i have and have racked up the posts! :mamoru:
     
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    jmezz layin in bed stretchin my pumped quads for hours

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