So I moved to SF from LA with my friend a year ago, and we've been roommates since (housemates if you want to be technical)... Anyway, I've always wanted my own place. And since moving here, i want to live closer to the city. Our lease is up at the end of January. I feel incredibly guilty about wanting to move out. I feel like i'm leaving him hanging or I'm dissing him or something. I don't know if that is how I should be feeling or I'm just being really soft. He's a really cool dude, and besides my wants and everything, the fact that his girlfriend is basically living at our place is kind of annoying. So I guess I'm asking... Am I messed up for wanting to get my own place? I don't want to lose him as a friend because he is cool. How should I go about handling this situation? When should I tell him i'm moving out, if I really am?