Discussion in 'On Topic' started by elduderino323, May 21, 2008.
anyone know? i am doing all i can but there must be more
Kill the fucker who did it?
I know I wouldnt be posting on the internet about it....
Way to make a thread.
How can we know what more you can do if we dont know what youre doing to start with?
First...how old is she? I am assuming a minor? Where are your parents???
It should be reported to police, not OT.
Parents should get her into counseling asap before it messes her up.
Perpetrator needs to be castrated w/o anesthesia and have limbs removed.
I'd go to OT if my sister were molested too. Good instincts.
Hold on, I thought this was On Topic.
yea going to OT was a bad idea.
pick up the phone and report while they are still able to see possible bruising
You're assuming a lot here. This could be another one of those common "he raped me!!!!!!!1111111111111" stories girls make up about sex they regret.
Right, the perp should be wormed.
Probably going to get better answers here.
A lot of details left out:
1) How old is she?
2) Who was the molester?
3) How did it happen?
4) What have you done so far?
Beat the crap out of the abuser.
shes 11 my 15 year old cousin did it, parents to trapped to do anyhting about it, i made my mom get a counsellors number and call 2x today.. somehting serious needs to be done about the cousin.
thans for gettign to the police now idea there still might be bruising
The longer you wait the harder it is to get him, do it now.
Two steps: File charges, get into counseling.
I understand where your coming from its a kind of shitty situation because the guy that did it is a family member but you need to handle this shit stat. The longer you wait the harder its going to be she should have been in an emergency room getting a rape kit the moment you found out.
Unfortunately I know how hard the situation can be I volunteered at a victims advocacy center when I was in high school and college. When a family member is the one that does it, its pretty hard for some people to step up because its a conflict but you need to man up. Fuck your cousin because that mother fucker hurt your little sis.
You need to not care about your parents right now and do whats right by your sister. Call the police yourself and have them come out to the house this needs to get taken care of stat! You need to get her checked out by a doctor as soon as possible as well. It looks like your parents arent manning up from what your telling me so your going to have to.
Take the following course of action.
1. Take her to an E.R. or Dr. and explain to them the situation. They will be able to handle it from there and guide you through the process. They usually have some one on staff to help you out.
2. The E.R. is going to either have a counselor there or will be able to get you a counselor it is very important that she speaks to one. They will also call the police for you and address all the legal stuff for you from the hospital.
3. file those fucking charges. if he gets away with this lord knows who else he can do it to or has done it to. I understand that he is only 15 but it isnt right and you need to do right by your sister.
We as older siblings have a responsibility to our younger siblings to look out for them and do what ever we can. To think that some one would violate your younger sister who is only 11 years old makes my blood boil. Your going to have to be a rock for your sister because this is gonna be hard for her. Do what you have to do and push this issue forward get the police involved and get her the medical/psychological attention she needs.
This has the potential to cause a lot of damage if not addressed properly and your gonna have to be the one to bear that load. If you need any more info, advice, or just need some one to talk to and help you out feel free to hit me up on pm and ill be more then willing to help you out.
throw in medical attention
Three steps! It's a fibonacci number.
he said molested not raped
edit: actually nm he's being pretty unclear about the whole thing... would the thread starter mind providing details? I don't mean detailed details, but was she raped or what?
Get the police involved. Hopefully your sis AND your cousin can get help.
yeah I was thinking the same thing at first but then he mentioned bruising so I assumed there was some kind of physical abuse.
How old are you?
Since this situation revolves around kids, you need to get parents involved. Talk to your parents, and talk to the other kid's parents.
Your parents feel trapped because it's family. Fuck that. Not only did he do something wrong, he did it to family. If he's going to have such little regard for family, why should you?
Get the police involved. Tell your sis to tell a counselor or nurse at school. Tell your sis to go to the police if your parents won't do it for her.
Your're assuming way more