Single guys and gals. What do u miss the most about having a SO?

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  1. purplebeast

    purplebeast The depths of hell and endless torture await all h

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    Dont list sex cuz thats a given and can be obtained thru booty calls.

    Im pretty content being single, but there are somethings that its hard to find a replacement for.

    Going to sleep snuggled up and waking up next to someone on a regular basis.
    Taking showers toguether.
    Weekend get aways.
    Good night/good morning call.

    Corny couple's stuff-

    beach picnics
    Theme park
    Theather


    how about u?
     
  2. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    The booty, the cuddling, the company I can get from FWB.

    I've only been in one relationship, and it was not a real relationship, but more of a situation I enforced so as not to be single and lonely again. As you can imagine, the relationship aspect of the relationship was utterly devoid of joy. So I can't answer you.
     
  3. lauren

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    falling alseep with someone
    watching corney horror films
    just touching
    driving around
    dancing
    laughing....

    like, i know other people are funny, and i have a good time, but an SO knows your quirks, knows special shit which makes the humor so much better...
     
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    someone to call at the end of the day and have it actually mean something.

    knowing someone cares about me.

    waking up next to someone/ falling asleep with them.

    everything lol.
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    the last bit i can get with good friends.

    some kinds of people can only really open up to an s/o, whereas others can only do it with friends, but never an s/o, and then some people can do it with both. u are probably the first one.
     
  6. Two toys

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    i dont know about you, but my penis doesn't go into my friends... while i love spending time with my friends and i can open up to them and laugh/dance/cuddle/fall asleep next to them, there is a huge difference in the connection, it sounds like you are probably the 2nd.
     
  7. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    is the penis entering your s/o related to how she "knows the quirks and knows special shit" to make humor better?
     
  8. Two toys

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    my penis entering my s/o is based on a strong physical and emotional connection, one which i do not have with my friends. the jokes arent any funnier the dancing isnt any better... but who its with is just as important to me.
     
  9. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    i'm gonna start a thread and stop hijacking purplebeast's.

    what do you miss about being in a relationship, folks?
     
  10. Asses Maximus

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    This thread sux. I am starting to hate being single agian and I'm feeling all emo. I want a SO, but it just isnt in the cards now.
     
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    i agree with tthis. like, there are just some things my so knows that other people dont. perhapps a funny sexual experiance or some other inside joke(cause i typically spend twice as much time with him than i do my friends, statistically, its bound to happen) that we can laugh about that even my good friends may not know (or if they do, it was a had to be there thing and they just dont get it)

    and the dancing is better with an SO bc of the strong sexual attraction. im not sexually attracted to my friedns (most of the time)...if i were, id be dating them.
     
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    During the coming cold season, having someone to keep warm with...
     
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    fallin asleep beside them, cuddlin front the tv, even walkin the dog
     
  14. purplebeast

    purplebeast The depths of hell and endless torture await all h

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    Cheer up. Its not bad to be single, it has its own charm. They both have pros and cons. Its just a matter of learning to enjoy the pros of whatever stage ur going trhu.
     
  15. NJGuy

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    Sleeping.
    Comfortable sex.
    Sexual exploration
    Not having to allways hang out with friends when I dont feel like eating or watching a movie alone.
    Knowing Looks.
    Cuddling/Spooning
    Emotional bonds.
    Hell its been so long for me Im even starting to miss the frustrating crap like arguments ;p
     
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    i miss it all!!!
     
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    i miss all of it... havent been in a relationship for 2 yrs.. and it sucks.... couples make me jealous sometimes cause i wish i had what they had...
     
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    I miss the comfort and security that comes with a relationship.
     
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    Most of the stuff said already but probably the most important one:

    Going away and knowing you're being missed and then having that person waiting for you when you get home.
     
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    [HRT]Squirrel Master New Member

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    roger that.
     
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    nothing beats being with someone who knows the real you
     
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    cuddling in front of the tv and watch your favorite her favorite show and watching her smile..
    taking crazy ass drives
    getting a wake up call in the morning
    her head on my shoulder
    the feel of someone that will be by your side
     
  23. Ichabod Crane

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    yea, thats a big one.... thats the shit that keeps a dude up at night...:wtc:
     
  25. purplebeast

    purplebeast The depths of hell and endless torture await all h

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    My mother, father, cousins, aunts, uncles and friends love me. Granted is not the same. But it helps:bigthumb:
     

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