So everything was going great and then i get the dreaded "just wanted to see how you were doing" phone call. damnit. I thought you and I don't talk? at the time i just didn't answer the phone, which seems like a good idea at the time, but now its 20 hours later and I wish I'd just answered the phone and gotten it over with. she left a message so now what.. Im thinking a BS "im doing great, how bout you? kthxbye" email would be the way to go. I know if i ignore her thats just going to drive her crazier, and its not really the kind of thing where i really want to send an "f you". I just don't want to deal with her because right now she can't bring anything good to my life and, since we broke up, she has made a pretty strong habit of bringing bad things to it. im actually pretty pissed that she can still affect me.