I'm going to try and make this as short and simple to understand as possible, so here goes. Basically I date a girl for 3 years, and things are for the most part good, we end up breaking up about a year ago when she went away to college, and though at first it was shitty to deal with, I eventually realized that being single at the age of 22 is pretty awesome, and I thoroughly enjoy life more now. Anyway, fast forward to the beginning of Summer (a few weeks ago) her best friend and roommate up at her college, comes down for the Summer, and just so happens to live just down the street from me. We end up talking on Facebook once or twice, and before I knew it, we were hanging out together. Keep in mind, my ex is still involved in my life, she calls me almost daily, and for the most part still tells me that she has feelings for me even though she dumped me over the phone the first week she went away for school. So yeah, here I am hanging out with her best friend now, and of course shit starts to get heavy, and we end up hooking up a couple times. Now I know all along that yes, this is wrong and I shouldn't be doing this, but I don't know, it's just one of those things, I figure it's the Summer, she'll be gone soon, and in the end this will just be a fun little romp to entertain me in the Summer while I'm in Police academy. Well it's not that simple, we hang out for about a month, and as time progressed we got more and more couple-y. She holds my hand in public, and gives me random kisses, and even tells a few people that I'm her man and shit. I'm like, ok whatever, no big deal, as long as I'm getting laid right? Well...Yesterday, the chick decides to tell me that she wants to make our relationship official, but thinks it's a good idea to disclose of our relationship to my ex first because she doesn't like to feel guilty and lie. I'm thinking WTF , why would you go and ruin a perfectly good thing, and tell my ex, but she insisted, and today she calls me to tell me that she's going to call my ex and tell her. I tell her again that I didn't think it was a good idea, and all it was going to do was cause drama, but she fucking insisted, and sure enough called her. 5 minutes later she calls me back with a shitty voice. She said my ex didn't take it well (no fucking shit) and that she felt so bad that she even thinks we shouldn't hang out anymore. I'm thinking HOLY FUCKING SHIT not only does the retard go and tell my ex/her best friend about the shit we've done, but then you're going to go and tell me you don't think it's a good idea that we hang out anymore (way to fuck up two perfectly good things moron). Anyway, I guess I'm not really seeking any actual advice, I just needed to rant, and I guess I'm open to questions, comments, concerns. Bottom line, girls don't know how to fucking act.