Sigh, problem with virgins I guess?

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  1. jagman

    jagman New Member

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    Hi, I am 17 and a half years old and just graduated high school.. I have had sex with four girls all of which were good looking none of which were virgins.

    I have this mental problem I guess you could say where not only am I immediately a lot less attracted to a girl I meet once I found out they are not a virgin but if I know a girl whos been my friend (and most likely ive been trying to get with or gotten with) loses it thats all I could think about anytime I talk to them.

    I'm not an idiot, I know the common responses such as insecurities and such but I really do not believe it's that. Maybe someone has had a similar problem in their youth and figured it out hence why I post here.

    Thank you all for input!
     
  2. jonno

    jonno New Member

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    i think everyone was once this way. once you get older you'll realize it's not a big deal. people have sex... you'll learn to live with it.
     
  3. jagman

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    Exactly my words.
     
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    You're 17, and you've already been with four girls. That leads me to believe that none of them were very serious relationships. I think you'll find that things are a different story when you're with someone you really care about. Don't rush into having sex with the next girl.
     
  6. jagman

    jagman New Member

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    Probably right Prowler, but I still feel that even if I find the perfect girl and am obsessed over her I still wouldn't be able to shake the feeling that I wasn't her first
     
  7. Stan

    Stan Let me break it to you son, your shit's fucked up.

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    Paul Bernardo was the same way...:eek3:
     
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    would you want her obsessing over the fact that she isnt your first? imagine if she ended up dumping you after finding out you had sex with four other girls, pretty stupid thing to lose a relationship over isnt it?
     
  9. BradUF

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    Virgins are teh best.
     
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    i'll take a girl who knows what she's doing to a unknowing virgin any day.
     
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    Im not saying I refuse to date or will dump them.. by all means I know that I will end up in a serious relationship with a female who has been with other guys. I simply stated that it deeply bothers me.
     
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    Sorry Viper but according to your other thread my opinion on any sexual matter is far more accountable than yours.
     
  13. Sexual experience? I have none, but I mod a place called the Vag? :eek3:
     
  14. ptwiggens

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    You get validation from having a girl like you, and you get even more validation when she has sex with you. When you find out that you are not the only one she has had sex with, you realize that getting her to have sex doesn't deserve as much validation as you thought, and thus you lose some attraction. You no longer can view yourself as the only one she can get that validation from so it creates that weirdness.
     
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    jagman New Member

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    best post in this thread so far, makes some sense
     
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    k0in b4hd New Member

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    Girls want to validate that a cock is always in their pussy. Sorry bro, way the world works
     
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    :werd:
     
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    i was kind of like this when i was in highschool too. i wasnt having sex then but it bothered me if a girl i liked wasnt a virgin.

    its just an age thing, it doesnt bother me anymore at all. actually id rather be with a girl who lost her virginity in a serious relationship to a previous boyfriend so that way she wont really suck at sex but also didnt get her skills by banging lots of random guys
     
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    i would beg to differ
     
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    It deeply bothers you that a girl isn't a virgin when you meet yet you see nothing wrong with being under 18 and already having been with four girls?

    Pot? Kettle? :rolleyes:

    Grow up and get over it. I can see it now; you'll have been with 30 women before you find that perfect virgin and she'll end up dumping your ass for being a man whore. :mamoru:
     
  21. jagman

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    Not if she never knows mwahah
     
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    im 17 and im the same way...except for for the whole having sex with four girls thing
     
  23. nuhbaboji

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    well you cant expect your partner to be a virgin wen you are not either.
     
  24. jagman

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    yes I can.
     
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    well, if the girl belives in having sex with that one special person only. she would want the guy to be a virgin too. so i dont think its fair to say i want to my partner to be virgin while you already sex with other women
     

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