Sick of being a virgin

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  1. Mcgovlau

    Mcgovlau Лоз Боз

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    I always really wanted to wait till I had a solid relationship to have sex, but quite frankly I'm sick of waiting :squint: I mean I've done almost everything else besides penetration, but is it wrong to change my morals really? I kinda just want to have fun...

    opinions? advice?
     
  2. Mcgovlau

    Mcgovlau Лоз Боз

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    I'm also worried that the guy will laugh at the fact that I'm a virgin.
     
  3. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    How old are you?
     
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    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    If he does he's an arse and not worth your time.

    I can't speak for everyone, but I've been with a couple of virgins and it is really rewarding, much slower, sexier, intimate. They've been 21 and 23 and I sure as hell didn't laugh at them. Would have to be an absolute arse to even think about that.

    Morals are a societal construct anyway. No one will think less of you.

    Out of interest, how old are you?

    Edit. Seen answer. It's really not that late at all. I'm sure most people would be understanding.
     
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    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Oh, and no guy is going to "laugh" at your virginity. If anything they'll drool over a virgin.

    Babylon is right though-they're your morals, it's your decision; no one else's. If you think other's opinions should effect the way you live your life than you should really think about why that is.
     
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    The only reason I worry about the moral thing is because my close friends know me very well. They know I've been waiting and they're all like "Omg I can't wait till Laura loses it, I wanna know the guy, ect." I feel like if I hook up for fun for my first time that they'll think less of me. I love my friends and I wouldn't want them to think lesser of me.

    edit: basically they expect me to lose it to a boyfriend
     
  8. Ideotique

    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    Fuck, don't worry about what other people think. It is your life. Not theirs. Live it how you want to live it, not how others expect you to live it.
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Still, do what you want. In my honest opinion based off other threads I have read by you if you just lost it to some guy you didn't give a damn about I think you would regret it, and not because of what your friends think. But :dunno: it's up to you.
     
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    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Why do you want to lose "it" so bad anyhow? Are you even horny? Or has society and/or friends made you think that by 20 it should have happened by now?
     
  11. Mcgovlau

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    I mean I like the guy that I wanna have sex with, but it's not like we're dating or going to date. I know what you mean though :ugh: I've always wanted it to be someone special, but I've recently started feeling like I just want to have fun instead.

    LOL horny as fuck.
     
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    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    Thats as good a reason as any in my book.
     
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    my friend told me once that i'm ready to have sex when i can go into a sex shop and take it seriously. i went into condom world the other day and i was having so much fun looking at all the stuff =)
     
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    I think I still might get a vibrator or something because I'm so tight. I'd rather not faint from pain.
     
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    Mcgovlau Лоз Боз

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    now that I think about it. I went pretty fast with my ex (broke up with him before we had sex) but I'm not really all broken up that i went that fast. I was actually disappointed that he sucked.
     
  16. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    Not really. Rather not deal with the emotional bs.
     
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    These two do not speak on behalf of men everywhere.
     
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  19. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    how can sex between consenting adults be morally wrong?

    this is one of the great failings of religion

    the huge amount of guilty created by teaching people it is morally wrong to listen to one of their bodies' strongest urges
     
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    Duh Yail, this is to weed out the jokers in religious circles. You are not fit to be a servant of your God unless you are willing to force being miserable unto yourself.
     
  21. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    Uh, that's the entire point of most religions/moral codes.

    DON'T act like an animal and do something just because it feels good. Be it sex, alcohol/drugs, hurting others, gluttony, sloth, whatever.....
     
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    im sorry, but that will just make him want you even more.
     
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    I'm completely opposite to you then.
     
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    The problem is that if and when a guy find out you're a virgin, hes going to assume you're still a virgin for a reason and don't plan on giving it up without a long-term effort. Not many guys will be willing to have a gf and not be having sex.
     
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    Personally, I respect that you've waited but I'd imagine you've been exposed enough sexually to not put off a virgin vibe........so my advice to you is as follows:

    If you're going to go out and fuck a random guy, dont tell him that you're a virgin. If you want to go to a friend and have sex, its alright to let them know. If I were you'd I'd find a friend that you trust and talk to him about it. For all you know he is DYING to fuck you. I have a friend who is still a virgin and if she came to me like "hey, I want to have sex but I dont want to screw a random guy and I dont have a boyfriend.....so lets do it" I'd jump her shit right there. I would do anything for that opportunity actually :x:
     

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