No I am not in highschool, I am 23, though the drama that ensues feels like 8th grade. So I have this friend, let's call him Tom. Tom has a female cousin our age, and her friends are our age too. Tom's family has a party at his house, his cousin brings some of her friends. One friend of hers in particular sparks my interest, so in the next few days I mention to Tom we should all get together so I can see her again, to potentially ask her out. This is exactly what I tell Tom, but it never happens. Fast forward to Friday night. Last week I was out of town for 10 days...but we all get together at a bar. This girl is there and things seem to be going good. The conversation then gets to her going out with Tom twice, while I am gone. Is this fucked up? Tom is my best friend....we do more shit together than we do alone (rec sports, excersise, watching sports on TV) I had to hear from her that they went out, yes from her. He was clearly hiding it from me because I asked another good friend and he knew about it. And it's not like he just met her......he has known her for quite some time, and both have been single for the same amount of time as well. So Tom is being pissy that night and real drunk, so I take him home. His cousin calls asking where we went and I said i had to take Tom home. They ask me to come back over cause they ordered pizza....so I go back over there. Tom finds out thru girl that I went over there AND IS NOW PISSED AT ME. I haven't talked to him yet, but I just wanted your thoughts before I approach this. Tom is a stubborn, selfish, son of a bitch and I know it won't end well.