By this I mean if your friends call you up to go to a party and then later your gf calls you up. Should you just be able to invite her along and if she does not want to go, go anyways and there should be no problem? I listen to a few people on here basicly saying what you want to do should not change for your gf but now I feel like I was wrong about that. I notice other people with girl friends are always changing plans to do what there gf wants. I just feel like what I did in the last months were wrong. I took this advice and when ever I had plans I would invite my gf with me and she would always say no and become depressed. I felt like I should not be deprived of what I want to do just because she didn't want to do it. I just feel like I ruined everything on something that could never be. That you should have so much in common with your gf that when you want to do something she wants to come along also because honestly, I have yet to see girls come out with there boyfriends to have a good time with friends. Everyone seems to just watch movies with there girl friends. That is what drove me insane, I stayed at home and watched movies for 2 years and my gf not once, ever...Came out with me to a party or something. Im just curious, Viper did you just do what your gf/wife wanted forever until you got fed up and just stop doing things she wanted and when that happen the shit hit the fan?