I'm living in Japan dating a Japanese woman. Been dating for almost 8 months now, and it's pretty serious. She spends half the week at my place. Most weekends, she stays over the whole time. Sometimes she will go out to dinner or hang out with her friends on a Saturday or Friday. I don't fully understand the Japanese mentality yet, especially when it comes to relationships. They seem to be more serious and more faithful/loyal. Last week she said she was going out for some drinks with a friend on Friday, and that she'd come over Saturday. No big deal. I don't mind if she spends time with her friends. On Saturday, I asked her about her night, and came to find out that she went drinking with a guy she used to work with. I told her it sounded like a date. She said it was nothing of the sort. Just a couple drinks, and that I had nothing to worry about. That I'm the only one she wants to be with, and that if I wasn't comfortable with it, she wouldn't see this friend again. I didn't really ask her any details about the guy. Not sure how often they hang out or what not. As far as I know, it's the first time since we've been together. She doesn't like me hanging out with female friends and doesn't even like females to come over to my place, so seems a bit BS if she's hanging out with guy friends. On Sunday, while she was over here, I'm pretty sure the guy called her. She talked to some guy for a min, but it was in Japanese, so I don't know what she was talking about. She wasn't acting suspicious or anything and it seemed like a friendly conversation. It's kind of been nagging me a bit though. I'm thinking about asking her for some details about this guy and their friendship. Am I thinking too much? She's been great, and hasn't given me any reasons not to trust her. I do trust her, but my trust for females only goes so far. Cause if she wanted to cheat, there would be no way of me knowing, seeing as how I can't read or understand any Japanese. No way of me ever finding out.