Should I?

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  1. mikeeb13

    mikeeb13 New Member

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    I'll make it short, been flirting with one of my good friends for a while...and she's been flirting back...alot. This weekend she starts kissing me when we're drunk...next day when we're sober we're talking and both kinda fess up to wanting each other...so we've been makin out and shit, nothing serious

    ...but shes a babysitter for some rich lady...tomorrow night the kid will be gone at friends for the night... she wants me to come over and spend the night...she keeps telling me how lonley she is in this big ass bed

    k sounds all good right? well..she has a bf that is also a good friend of mine, and he has an engagement ring for her that she doesnt know about

    What the fuck should i do OT?
     
  2. Bruticus

    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    If you want to be an asshole, sure do her.

    If you want to be a good friend, tell your friend his gf is a cheater.

    If you want to stay out of drama, do nothing.

    I'd go with the second myself...
     
  3. quid

    quid I Piss Excellence OT Supporter

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    i would definatly do this.... first your buddy will be pissed at you, then he will talk to the girl, be pissed at her, probably dump her and move on.

    if shes messing around with his friends now its down hill from here. and furthermore, you would be a fucking moron to get with her in a relationship setting because you know first hand that shes a cheater...
     
  4. Epiphany

    Epiphany 78% of all statistics are made up on the spot

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    It amazes me that this is even a question. Are you serious?

    Well at least she has morals and standards... :ugh:

    Here is how I work:
    1. never date anyone with cheating tendencies.
    2. anyone wanting to move that fast usually has no good intentions.
    3. there is no place in (my) life for any person who isn't honest, trustworthy and loyal

    What the hell are you thinkin dude? This is just wrong on so many levels. Common sense has to tell you that.
     
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  5. alep85

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    Looking back on it man, you did me a favor. :)
     
  6. Chris90210

    Chris90210 New Member

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    If you have to ask "Should I" you probably should not........
     
  7. alo816

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    How old are you guys? If your under 21 then go for it, your young. But take pictures in the middle to show ur friend proof.
     
  8. derivative

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  9. dijital

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    Very good advice.
     
  10. fighted

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    you are guaranteed to loose two close friends if you go through with seeing her
     
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    what are the chances of the OP going for it?
     
  12. Asses Maximus

    Asses Maximus Guns don't kill people. People kill people. Guns d

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    well, It happened nearly 2 years ago, so it should be easy to find out.
     
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    lol, i wonder if he did.
     
  14. Hedger

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    Personally, I would let him know so that he doens't waste that money and shit on the little whore. Not worth it dude, others will come around.

    ...just noticed this is old. damnit
     
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    tell him to come back and tell us the outcome!
     
  16. keleko

    keleko yes, he is

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  17. Raggity Man

    Raggity Man Lets share the milk of human kindness

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    given you tell your friend, which you should, wouldnt that pretty much mean they break up and there might be a slim chance to make out anyway? what would michael scott say, win win, win lose, hmm
     
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    dunno how I found this thread again, but I'll give you an update anyways... almost 2 years later :rofl:

    I ended up going over to the house with her and fooling around a little bit, but I couldn't bring myself to have sex with her yet... it seemed wrong, and it probably was. Well, it ended up happening about a week later via alcohol. After all of it was done, she wanted to start dating n stuff, but I was leaving the area and didn't wanna stir up anymore shit that I already did, so I talked with her about it... she was sad, but soon she understood. We're pretty good friends now considering the distance, it should have been this way from the beginning IMO. The boyfriend and I eventually talked, as I'm sure he was pissed at the time, but we seem to be at terms now, because he seems to be doing even better with a new girl.. luck to him, and I'll stay away :rofl:

    this is him btw ... me = :Owned:
     
  19. MattThom01

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    I know its old and such..but you did the right thing.

    That girl was majorly disrespectful, both to the boyfriend and to the lady she worked for. Come on, she wanted you to have sex with her in an employer's home?

    Not cool.
     
  20. Nucleartiger

    Nucleartiger Clemson makes my nipples hard

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    I love threads were we find out how the story ends.
     
  21. ScrapXmetal

    ScrapXmetal Why so manly? OT Supporter

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  22. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    I don't get the line being drawn (or at least seeming to be drawn) between vaginal-penile stimulation and other sexually arousing contact. Not having sex / having sex, he did the same thing, no?
     
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    How do you figure he did the right thing?

    He fooled around with his good friends g/f (which he was planning to propose to), and then he later on fucked his good friends g/f. And he explained that the reason he decided not to continue relations with the girl was that he was moving away.

    Seems to me he did a lot wrong here, lol.
     
  24. mikeeb13

    mikeeb13 New Member

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    we weren't really good friends even, not to say we never hung out, but we weren't real close friends I'd say. Not to put him down or anything. Maybe that's a biased opinion, because I'd been going through a lot of drama with a bunch of old high school friends at the time.

    regardless though, what I did probably wasn't the coolest thing ever, but I did it... it's weird, because I never pictured myself to ever do something like that in my life. I have a pretty shitty social life, and it just happened... now I'm in a different state with a totally different lifestyle... I'd be lying if I told you I had female friends here even. Life's funny like that I guess
     
  25. mikeeb13

    mikeeb13 New Member

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    a few pics just for keleko :( :hug:

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    don't mind the "faces", she always does that lol :mamoru:
     

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