Sometimes, a girl will find one of those guys who's just... always there for them. One of those guys who's just your best friend, your crying shoulder, and that extra 50 bucks when you have absolutely no gas to get to work. Well, I found one of those guys, about 3 years ago and for 3 years its always been awkward. We've been there for each other through thick and thin, even when I left the state he came to visit me. I recently just left another guy and he and his fiance' ended about 4 months ago, and tonight after 2 months we finally saw each other again. He did the classic tell me his emotions, but I didnt really know how to handle it. I know that I have feelings for him, but theres a catch. Im 18, he's 25. I guess im just a little cautious around him because I don't understand why he's always hanging with a "kid" and not settling down in his life. I know we make a good pair, and I know we have feelings for each other, but i'm wondering whats hiding in his closet. Do I trust my instinct or try and see where it goes?