Should i tell my fiance?

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  1. ITR06

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    So im getting married next April. Out of the blue i get a text message from an old girlfriend. I'm talking like 5 years ago old. She texts me that she was dreaming about me and it was really sexual :hsd: Anyhow she asked me to meet up with her this weekend, i replied with no and told her i was engaged. She insisted and told me she got fake boobs and wanted to fuck me :squint: So i told her no thanks. Should i let my fiance know this happened or just sweep it under the rug :noes:
     
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    sounds like you handled it, why bother causing problems by telling the fiance?
     
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    i'd tell her. but also tell/show her how you responded. if she ever found out otherwise it would look funny. that's just me though.
     
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    i agree. i think she should know, there shoudnt have to be secrets. and she should be happy for how you handled the situation.
     
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    i'd tell her just because it's pretty :rofl:

    i agree that if she found out some other way there could be problems
     
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    You handled it correctly, and FWIW, good job.
     
  7. RedVsBlue

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    id tell her, probably make for a good laugh :dunno: Gotta keep things open anyways. I know my wife loves things like that, just knowing that she has what someone else wants.

    Plus, as someone else said, better hearing it from you than something stupid coming up later.
     
  8. ITR06

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    Well heres the bump in the road. When me and the fiance were first dating like one month into the relationship. The SO was away and i got pretty hammered (no excuse) Invited this past girlfriend over and she came over, but once she got there i was like wtf am i doing and i went to bed, the old GF passed out beside me. I told my fiance (gf at the time) she was pretty pissed and bugged the shit out of me for months saying i cheated on her. She finally got over it. She will probley be angry if i tell her :o
     
  9. mooses

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    Just think of how she'd react if you didn't tell her, but she found it on your phone :noes:
     
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    yeah but you didn't do anything wrong..
    eh i'd tell her
     
  11. CHOWBOX

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    bingo :nono: too sticky, just tell her
     
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    Oh and heres the kicker i asked for pics of her fake boobs :rofl:. I was doing that for the greater good of OT though :joshers:
     
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    the ex texting you and you sleeping in a bed next to her are two different things. your fiance might not be thrilled that the ex contacted you, but she will be happy to know you said no way. its better if you tell her than if she randomly finds out

    oh yeah, and dont mention that you asked for the pics...probably not a great idea
     
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    :uh: this is sliding downhill fast
     
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    There is no more to add sir :hsd:
     
  16. jmezz

    jmezz layin in bed stretchin my pumped quads for hours

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    Did you get the pics?
     
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    :rofl::rofl::rofl:
     
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    figured you ran a train on her as well. isn't this all enough?
     
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    :rofl:

    Yes, tell your wife what the deal is.

    YES, post the pics if you succeeded. LOL
     
  20. chica&buddies

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    exactly... :uh:

    there's NO explanation for asking for pics, not even if you're a plastic surgeon wanting to glance at another doctor's work! that was wrong! you're engaged!

    on the other hand, i wholeheartedly believe that you need to tell your fiance what happened. what IF she found it on your phone? i dunno about you, but i've been with a guy that snooped through my phone all the time. little things that you may brush off may not be so little to her, and you have to keep that in mind.

    i'm not saying that i consider this to be a "little" problem, considering the fact that you DID ask for pictures, and that was wrong.

    :dunno: i'm all about putting everything out on the table. it's better to be honest rather than have it all backfire on you in the future. :sad2:

    it could be a lose/lose situation, considering the pics thing, but i think it's better for you to be upfront and honest.
     
  21. ITR06

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    I would have uploaded the pics for OT the second i got them.




    Ya asking for pics was dumb, i know that :o I always throw everything on the table cause I don't want anything to backfire when its just a simple problem or before somthing little blows up. I should just be like heres my phone read my inbox and outbox. You can clearly see i did nothing wrong (maybe ill delete the asking for pics text :bigthumb:
     
  22. iwishyouwerebeer

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    :rolleyes: and here I was about to give you kudos...
     
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    ahh fuck :noes:
     
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    DON'T!
     
  25. MattThom01

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    Definitely tell her, but make it funny...Say something like, "Honey, funny story, my crazy ex texted and wanted me to fuck her...she's crazy though, I told her no way!"
     

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