Should i talk to the ex?

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  1. hotsauce

    hotsauce New Member

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    So its been a couple months since the end of our one year relationship, and since then we have not had any communication. Now, we have split before during our relationship, and got back together after I began talking to her again-- which is why I vowed to never initiate communication with her until she wants to. So as a honorable man, I stand by my decision and I havent really had the urge to talk to her until recently.

    Yes, I have met new girls after our breakup. No, I have not banged any of them, and I admit I feel lonely quite often. I do not want to ever get back with her, as I am sure we will never have a lasting relationship, but I just want a friend (and female i guess) to talk to. Note: I live in a house with a bunch of dudes i'm close with, and I don't have many close female friends that I talk to on a regular basis currently.

    I don't want to break my word but sometimes its just so hard
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Don't ever talk to an ex until you are 100% over her and she is over you.

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  5. JohnJohnJohnson

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    I tried talking to mine about 1/3rd of the way through getting over her; after the convo, I fell into a dark pit of dispair so black that I stayed in bed for 12 hours. I had a friend over, too, but I just didn't give a shit.
     
  6. Doc Love

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    I made the mistake of talking to my ex only 5 months after she left me. Well, she played my emotions. We got back together this summer and it was a mess. Never, ever, ever, talk to an ex until both sides' emotions are gone.
     
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    :rofl:

    I don't mean to laugh at your pain, but the way you worded that made me laugh.
     
  8. Way_fast_Whitey

    Way_fast_Whitey Cause I Can't Stand To See You Treated Bad, I beat

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    ouch. It feels so good to not be over someone at all...and then..you hang out as friends..and she has no interest in if you are even breathing. it rocks.
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :werd: I'm so glad I'm friends with a few of my ex's. They are still good people.
     
  10. Way_fast_Whitey

    Way_fast_Whitey Cause I Can't Stand To See You Treated Bad, I beat

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    O im glad to be friends with this particular person..it was just wishful thinking. kinda sad actually.
     
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  12. hotsauce

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    i guess its better to wait a bit.. perhaps its still too soon

    she is a good person though :hs:
     
  13. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    that's cool, it was a while back anyway. Can you point out the funny parts? I am interested in humor writing. Was it the pit of despair hyperbole?
     
  14. Pringles

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    I agree but then when you say that anyone that isn't over their ex will say they are. So I'd just say no. It's not really that hard to find another fish in the sea.
     
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    fucking dot
     

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