Discussion in 'On Topic' started by JohnJohnJohnson, Nov 28, 2006.
I wasn't sure whether to send this or just read it, laugh a couple times and throw it away.
my gut says this is the sum of eloquence + low eq, but i'm still tempted to send it. what a cunt
Keep to yourself ><
Don't send it. Nothing good will come of it.
You don't think she mightn't read it and feel bad for a moment?
Probably not. On some level she's probably aware of what she was doing. She might just lose respect for you or even get a feeling of satisfaction for knowing that you're still thinking about her.
The best revenge is living well and forgetting about her.
If she was that psychotic of a bitch I wouldn't have liked her in the first place. We have a tendency to villainize our exes. She's a normal person like you or me who was a bit careless and who began to see me as someone who deserved less respect than I did. I feel like an aggressive response indicates that this is not the case. Either she still wants to be my friend and she'll keep the leash home or she doesn't... either way none of that bending over and receiving it rectally
I feel you've written it in such a way as to hurt her. Don't send it.
Rewrite it in such a way so as to educate her and show her that she hurt you. Possibly send it.
>< Childish lame way of saying you got hurt and getting back at her. And who are you to educate others.....GAH ^^
Every person has *something* to contribute to any other. Judging if that contribution or the method will do more harm than good is the tough part.
To be able to use someone as a tampon like that merely shows that she has no soul and thus you will never be able to harm her with things like this. The meaning would be totally lost on her.
Edit: I'm exaggerating a bit, but I think you know what I mean.
That's an interesting tactic, Viper. Do you think she'll understand, though? I'd say it's worth a shot.
don't send it. Use it to vent your feelings and such, but if you send it, you're giving her a way back into your life. You've gotten her out of your life, and it's best to keep it that way.
I can't believe that we've got a unanimous decision here.
you are a smartie
i like that idea it's just that a) i don't want to do that just yet b/c i don't have someone else i can actually get with b) not sure she would care
whereas a direct attack is hard to miss
really it's just (a)
say "wuv" instead of "ruv" and you're golden.
i've sent nasty letters (well, emails) to SOs before, and sometimes blunt sarcasm is the best way to show you arent unwise to the situation, despite a willfull lack of communication. also, it's a surefire way to get a response. just be sure youre baiting the response you're looking for.
i read the other responses just now, and if you *dont* want her in your life, dont send the email, because it *will* cause a conversation.
I sent the letter.
But I modified it.
The following portion directly follows the tampon analysis.
Don't be surprised if this opens up a can of worms with her.
Keep us updated if she responds or anything.
I have no idea what's going to happen.
I think you can expect a pity reply.
yeh well i modified it
right on, man.
only thing i'm really worried about right now is that she won't read it.
if anything will get through to her, this will.