Ive been in a relationship with my new gf for about 1 1/2 months, been seeing each other for about 3 months dates and stuff. Her sex drive must be really low,because the only time she gets in the mood is about once a month or so. We havent had sex yet,but she only wants to do stuff when she is in this mood about 1 time a month. She warned me she doesnt get in the mood often which is fine,but i find it kind of selfish. I dont want things to go on how they are, so i was wondering. When she gets in the mood which is very seldom,shoudl i deny her oral or sex if she wants it,just because she is in the mood? The other night i fogot condoms at home and she was in the mood,so we didnt have sex but she wanted to. It would have been our first time, but i just feel "used" because that is the only time she wants to do stuff is when she is in the mood.