Here's the story. I've known this one girl for about 6 months, she dated my friend in high school but we never knew each other then. I ran across her phot on FTJ and sent her a message. We hit it off great and have been hanging out for the last 6 months, but pretty much as friends because she has had a boyfriend. They broke up a month ago. We started talking about relationships and all that stuff and had a great 2 hour conversation about life and where we are going. I kept hinting that I was going ask her out, but I won't do it online so I waited until I was hanging out with her at her apt again. I finally asked her out last week and we set a date for last night, I saw her a few times that week just hanging at her apt watching movies and stuff, and everything seemed to be cool. I even saw her about 5 hours before I was supposed to pick her up to go out and she says "I'll call you around 8 when I am ready and u can come over" when I am leaving which I took as a good sign that she was serious about going out. Well 8 rolls around and I'm not anxious or anything, but then 8:30 rolls around so I decide to call her to see if something came up, keep in mind we have been friends for 6 months so it's not like I am stalking her, and no answer. At this point I am still calm but am starting to think about why she is ignoring me. 9 rolls around and I'm tired of sitting at home so I leave the house and drive by her apt hoping she is there and just getting ready still and can't answer the phone, but I drive by and she is not home and all the lights are out. So fuck it I go to my homeboy's house and hit up some Crown and Coke. I get home about 2 in the morning and see her signed onto AIM. It's not unusual for her to be on at 2 in the morning, so I sent her a message. No reply so I just sign off. This morning she is still signed on and won't reply to my messages, i know she is home and using it because her computer goes on standby in like 5 minutes, and automatically puts on an away message if she closes the screen on her laptop. I know she will call me because she always wants something from me, but what should I do when she calls? Blow her off completely like she did to me? Tell her how I feel and that I can't be her friend anymore if this is how she treats her friends? Try to salvage a friendship? Let it go? I'm at a loss as I really care about her and don't want to lose her but at the same time I feel crushed because we had made plans a week in advance and even confirmed them 5 hours before, but she blew me off anyway.