LGBT Should I keep a running total...?

Discussion in 'Lifestyle' started by kidwiththeshirt, Sep 2, 2007.

  1. kidwiththeshirt

    kidwiththeshirt I'm gay, big deal, wanna fight about it?

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    and update it here to keep track of the boys I play with? :wiggle:

    As of last night, not including boys I've only fooled around with as opposed to having sex with, eleven people :noes:
     
  2. stolid_agnostic

    stolid_agnostic One who is both stolid and agnostic. Get a diction

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    you know, I have had sex with more than 75 people....I stopped keeping track years ago

    just go with it and have fun!
     
  3. kidwiththeshirt

    kidwiththeshirt I'm gay, big deal, wanna fight about it?

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    yeah but how old are you? i'm only 19 @_@ and 6months out of the first year i was only mclovin one boy.
     
  4. kidwiththeshirt

    kidwiththeshirt I'm gay, big deal, wanna fight about it?

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    too late for that :(
     
  5. Digital_

    Digital_ New Member

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    I used to keep track. Then it just got to feeling weird. Then it started to make me worry about my health. Then I started keeping track of how many times I got tested. The I just started getting tested every 3 months . Then I realized how bad that was and stopped having sex with anyone except my hand.

    You're young, have fun, but for god sake be safe. Enjoy sex and all but have just a smidgen of sense. And remember it's not the number of people you sleep with, it's the number of people they have slept with.
     
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    novo Pokey Man OT Supporter

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    i don't even want to think about it :eek3:
     
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    Troof!
     
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    Diesel Freak ♂♂ Closet Crew OT Supporter

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    philvia SUCKIN ON MY TITTIES LIKE YOU WANTIN ME CALLIN ME

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    sounds exactly like me. i couldn't have said it better myself. by the time i was 21, from the age of 16ish, i was with, not sex, but, anything at all, with about 125 guys. every night, it would be AOL, planetout, xy, and meeting people in parking lots, hotels, people 40 years older than me, wouldn't even know their names, ect. did that for 5 years. then came the realization that, i could have HIV. it also happened around the time my anxiety kicked in. hypochondria really helped ground myself and realize how bad diseases were. so, it was me and my left hand till i met my current bf. and lemme tell ya..... sex with someone you love is WAY better than any sex i ever had with a stranger. plus you feel good afterwards, not worried about getting anything, plus they pay half your living expenses, haha.
     
  11. compu_85

    compu_85 Woooo! 60HP!

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  12. RyRy

    RyRy Active Member

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    I can still count the number on one hand :) I think I'm up to 4 now...
     
  13. Ivan

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    One person. Then again I'm only 18, but I don't even want to fool around with people. Too shy for that. I suppose I'll have to be alone for a long time. :hsd:
     
  14. boeingair

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    and i'm proud of it [18 years of age]

    i very much value intellect, and a person's ability to not only make me laugh, but engage in a reasonably good conversation about many things--everything from new trends in houses of design to freudian theories, and so far, it seems that everyone on the face of the earth is either stupid, or just in it for sex, which i dont believe in [or just a slob--eww]

    good friends, ftw!

    [first post, btw--hey everyone]
     
  15. boeingair

    boeingair New Member

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    ;) planning on it... have been busy lately, but you all seem like neat people

    thanks for the welcome!
     
  16. spiffy_badrock

    spiffy_badrock I'm sorry, if you were right, I'd agree with you.

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    Its only been 15-16 I think...Its been a while since I counted. James and I have had lots of threesomes in the past, so thats where most of it came from. I will agree, sex with someone you love is much, much better. I remeber really nice looking guys (six packs, guns, etc.....) we had threesomes with, and having beat the crap out of my little guy to keep him up, on the other hand I can just be cuddling with james and end up with a major hard on.....
     
  17. Digital_

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    Welcome lurker :mamoru:

    You'd be amazed at the sheer volume of stupids there are out there. Every once in a while though someone may come along that seems a bit simple, but once you actually engage them you'll find out how willing they are to converse with you on such far ranging topics. Also to note that the whole idea of being Gay is based on sex, so if you connect with a Gay man, expect there to be some desire for sex on someones part. It's not an issue unless someone makes it one though. Wanting sex and forcing the sex to happen are two entirely different things.
     
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  19. sholnay

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    no need to count... just makes you seem like a whore/slut to others. have fun, life isnt a contest and there is no need to keep such useless information in your head.
     
  20. stolid_agnostic

    stolid_agnostic One who is both stolid and agnostic. Get a diction

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    mmm

    I guess i'm the dirty old man here

    I have slept with probably 75 people :eek3:

    fooling around? more than that
     
  21. stolid_agnostic

    stolid_agnostic One who is both stolid and agnostic. Get a diction

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    been there, done that

    I'm in the same boat
     
  22. sholnay

    sholnay New Member

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    i like that bottom part of the reply... very true.
     
  23. boeingair

    boeingair New Member

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    thanks for the welcome

    you're absolutely correct, and i probably maintain a childish view of the world and the way i think it should work, but i don't want someone to be interested in a relationship just for the sex

    of course, sex is [and should be] a healthy part of a relationship, but i want someone to have just as much fun getting lost in neiman marcus or crate and barrel for the afternoon with me as they do having sex, and as far as i can tell nobody is like that

    [or maybe i am too picky?]
     
  24. boeingair

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    kid,

    sorry to be hijacking your thread--i should take this discussion to the random thoughts thread

    gomennasai
     
  25. sholnay

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    people are like that :)
     

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