When I first started going out with my GF I had a hard time getting her to open up. She's very quiet and normally I have to do the talking to get to her to start a deep conversation. She is not shy, just quiet.. she has no problem opening up once she starts. However, when we talk on the phone, email or anytime we're not face to face I feel like I'm talking to a friend. The conversations are very linear. I am very affectionate or atleast have been with past girlfriends, it's hard to with be with her when she doesn't act the same way. She has never called me anything but my name, no, for example, babe, baby, etc, you get the idea. Never has she said, I miss you, I wish you were here, etc. When we are together she's very physical and is affectionate, so it makes up for it. We have sex and she sometimes initiates it. No problem sexually. It's just lately I feel like I've been needing a little more reassurance. I sound like a girl, it's pathetic. I want to ask her what the relationship means to her, but I'm not sure how she'll take it. We have had no problems so far in the relationship and I know she's commited, I'd just like to hear it from her own mouth.. Should I just forget about it and deal with my insecurities of not getting enough non-physical attention?