Should I ignore my ex's calls/texts?

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  1. ady2glude707

    ady2glude707 New Member

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    My ex broke up with me 1.5 months ago. Ive been ignoring her texts and if I do want to reply to her texts, i'll wait an hour or so before replying. When she calls I dont pick up 80% of the time. All this happening for the past 1.5 months since breakup. So a couple of days ago she tells me shes pissed at me b/c she said ive been ignoring her texts/phone calls, and shes right, I am. Am I doing the right thing? Ive spoke to her auntie and her brother after the breakup and they told me to ignore her because if you ignore girls, they'll want you back b/c youre not giving them the attention they once had from you, and this is a girl i want back in my life.
     
  2. MattThom01

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    if you want her back, why did you two break up in the first place?
     
  3. squid

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    Get a new bitch.
     
  4. Falconer

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    I went through the same thing with my ex. By ignoring them you will likely increase her attraction for you. If you have to reply, keep it brief and dry. Do not reference any old inside jokes or anything, and don't add any unnecessary detail. The only way you should even reply is if she needs info from you or something that she can't get elsewhere, and you're a nice enough guy to help out (like if she has a computer question or something). If she's just txting you to chat, ignore her.
     
  5. ady2glude707

    ady2glude707 New Member

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    Shes the one who broke it off with me.
     
  6. Mr. Bungle

    Mr. Bungle *lube'n up the shock paddles*

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    Ignore.
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Why did she break up with you in the first place?

    Good for you, I find it awesome that you've been ignoring her for the most part. She's the ignorant one that broke up with you but still wants to keep contact and that's not fair for you. To get over her you have to ignore her and get her out of your life completely for a while.
     
  8. ady2glude707

    ady2glude707 New Member

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    She said she wanted to be alone with her son.

    UPDATE:
    So I have her myspace password(she doesnt know.) Her and her cousin message each other and here is my ex's response to how Im ignoring her and how she doesnt let me see her child anymore.

    "WHAT HE DOESNT ASK. WHEN I CALL HIM HE HARDLY EVER ANSWERS THEN HE TEXTS ME TALKING BOUT WHAT UP YOU CALLED. HE DOESNT RETURN MY CALL OR MY TEXTS. SO IM JUST LIKE FUCK IT. I DONT KNOW WHY HES DOING THAT BUT IF HE THINKS ITS HELPING ITS NOT CAUSE ITS MAKING ME NOT LIKE HIM ANYMORE CAUSE I KNOW HES PLAYIN WIT ME AND IT AINT HELPIN OUR FRIENDSHIP. I DONT WANNW FEEL THAT WAY EITHER
     
  9. MattThom01

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    So you want this girl back, but you're checking her myspace messages without her permission?

    Forget about this girl, respect her privacy, and don't be an asshole.
     
  10. Sirius

    Sirius OT Supporter

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    how old are you...?
     
  11. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :ugh: Ugh....how old is she? I'm torn on hoping she's 16 for talking that way, but then I'm praying she's not an ignorant 16 year old mother.

    Either way, please move on. The girl has far too much drama and baggage in her life and she doesn't know what she even wants. She only wants you now because she can't have you. If she did she'd push you away again. Do youself the favor and really stop answering....Oh, and stop checking her Myspace you creepy jerk.
     
  12. MattThom01

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    according to his identical thread in the asylum, he's 27, she's 23
     
  13. porsch1909

    porsch1909 OT Supporter

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    Don't ignore her!

    If you don't want communication with her then jsut tell her. Say 'THis isn't working.'

    Ignoring is really annoying.
     
  14. ady2glude707

    ady2glude707 New Member

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    we both have each others passwords, she doesnt think i know she knows mine, and she doesnt think i know hers
     
  15. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Doesn't make it less creepy that you are checking her messages :ugh:
     
  16. demosnat

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    Why does she type in all caps? Why is her grammar so bad?
     
  17. Viper

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    This is why I advocate just being yourself and doing what you want to do on your own terms.

    Girls are pretty good at feeling you out to see if you are playing games. Did you notice that she said that "CAUSE I KNOW HE'S PLAYIN WIT ME"?

    This is why I don't go advocating Seduction material because girls smell that shit a mile away unless they are denser than this girl, which, as you can see, is pretty fucking dense.
     
  18. BoypussY

    BoypussY game over.

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    move on
     
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  19. Justin636

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    For a second there I thought I was in the main forum and this was going to be a Bel Air post.

    :rofl:

    But yes, you should ignore your ex... she is an ex for a reason whether it was her decision or yours.
     
  20. controvert

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    didn't read that, but yes, ignore them.
     
  21. HeartIQuitYou

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    ugh i hate the stupid games that people play with each other. if you want her back then let her know. obviously she wouldn't be paying so much attention to you if she didn't want you back.
     

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