I'll save you all a super long story and try to get right to it. 1994-1995, I had a girlfriend in high school. Fell deeply in love and was ready to die for her. Her parents moved her 1000 miles away and we kind of ended on a bad note. We never really talked again since. I never got over her and felt my life would never be complete without her again. 14 years later, we are talking again out of nowhere. I can tell there is a connection still. We both are single parents and still have many things in common. However, we have our own lives, families and careers 1000 miles apart. It sounds like she wants me to go see her. I want to see her too. Obviously we can tell there is a connection still but don't want to set each other up for failure due to the long distance w/ kids circumstances. Keep in mind, my last 14 years have had a void in my life due to never being able to reconcile our differences and letting each other know our true feelings. NOW she knows my true feelings after exchanging several long emails back and forth over the last week and talking on the phone for hours like we were teenagers again. What do I do? Fly out there for the weekend to see if there is a spark still? Leave it alone and don't cause more heartache? Keep it strictly friendly? I need some advice please. Anyone else been down this road before?