should i get with this girl?

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  1. biggie03

    biggie03 Active Member

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    i met this girl and i had sex with her on our 2nd date.

    we first met at a starbucks, hung out for a while, couple hours, made out.

    then like 3 days later, she came over, we watched a dvd and had sex.

    should i bother being in a commitment?

    im thinking she just likes me a lot and wanted to keep me happy. we been going out for 2 months. i can tell she likes me a lot, she's cried for me, shes cancelled on her friends for me, she is always up to hang out with me, she occaisonally buys me things.

    i love her personality too, but the easiness of getting it is a drawback.

    please help
     
  2. b3av3r

    b3av3r Member

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    sounds desperate to me

    better watch out and make it clear you don't want any strings attached or else you will have a lot of problems with her clinging to you
     
  3. biggie03

    biggie03 Active Member

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    also maybe age is a factor

    im 25, shes 21.

    i guess we dont beat around the bush lol

    :hs:
     
  4. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    What kind of a question is that? The question is-do you WANT to be in a relationship with her? Whether or not she's easy to get should have nothing to do with it. If you like her and don't want to date anyone else then make her your gf.
     
  5. Kinks

    Kinks Sup. OT Supporter

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    the day something happens to biggie that is NOT a figment of his imagination is the day i'll actually offer help.
     
  6. Spiritus

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    Uhm, you have to have interest in each other.

    My and my current SO have said to each other that we always thought each other were hot, my ex was just in our way. My SO is my ex's exbestfriend. Heh.

    I would not have sex with someone unless I knew there was interest. I am very picky about my company, I will not have sex with a woman unless we are both interested in each other and there is a lot of potential. She also has to been educated or getting education, have a drive for life, etc. I don't want anyone to have me stuck in the mud, I am always moving forward.

    You already got with this girl biggie. I have noticed your big ego. She might be playing right into your hands and you don't care, so you are treating her with what I would consider disrespect. What do you think will happen when you start chasing that hot chick who has little interest in you? Go for middle ground bud.

    Her easiness is what I would call "head over heals" for you. That is a plus. She has a good personality and probally looks good. I suggest you advance with her, honestly. You don't build a relationship you buy into a good one with interest.
     
  7. BigC

    BigC New Member

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    In Europe, sleeping with a guy after they meet is a hint that they like you.
     
  8. MattThom01

    MattThom01 New Member

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    why are you asking us? We don't know what you're thinking. We can't read your mind. This is a question only you can answer.

    I love it when people ask questions that only they can answer.
     
  9. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    let her push for the relationship
     
  10. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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  11. antihero

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    are you serious? :ugh:
     
  12. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    wtf dude? Do you want to be with her or not? If you do, then go ahead and make it a legitimate relationship. If not, then either weed her out of your life or just tell her its not working for you.
     
  13. biggie03

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    i like the head over heels comment. yeah i guess i'll take it slow and see what happens.
     
  14. Kinks

    Kinks Sup. OT Supporter

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    yep. don't stuff your nuts in her ass until the 3rd date.
     
  15. Nucleartiger

    Nucleartiger Clemson makes my nipples hard

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    QFT

    And make sure you wash them before hand. You might be dirty and give her something.
     
  16. notsousual

    notsousual New Member

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    You've been hinting at this in your threads for awhile.

    You know what you want, you're just asking us to verify it.
     

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