Should I get back w/ cool gf or move on?

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  1. theaznfunk

    theaznfunk B-boy fanatic

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    I broke up w/ my gf of 1 yr and 8 mos last week. Our relationship was awesome, as in she was for the most part not a bitch and the sex was grrrreat, as in we have probably done it in more public places than I can remember. And she was such a sweetheart... buuuuut...

    she's my first serious girlfriend. And I've always had that itch about meeting other people, so I wanted to experience something else. But now I'm just in that place where I really miss her and want her back. Is this natural? Should I give in to my heart and go back to her? Or should I stay the course and find someone else? arghies
     
  2. Two toys

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    watch porn beat off and rethink this... guys always think better without jizz in teh balls
     
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    Jonnie Boomboom New Member

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    Um.... if the only problem you had with her was that she was your only serious girlfriend, but she was great at everything else.... seek psychiatric help.

    Get her back. DUH....
     
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    how old are you two? has she had other serious relationships? how did she react to you wanting to 'date other people'?
     
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    We're 19, no she hasn't had any other serious relationships, and she reacted pretty badly to seeing other people.
     
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    hm. you two in college? people change a lot in the first year or two. if its only been a week, id say go back. work it until you know if shes for you or not. if you arent right for each other, things down the road will be enough to break you apart. you dont need to pre-emptively stop a currently good thing. you have plently of time in your life to see what other options you have if this relationship turns out not right for you in the future.
     
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    Thanks guys,

    yeah, I asked her back... we'll see how that goes. I realized that it's pretty dumb giving up a great thing... might as well ride out the relationship and see if it ends up ok. If not, then what the heck. I really am enjoying my single life as it is right now b/c I'm just a naturally friendly person.
     

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