Should I feel weird?

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  1. sphinx

    sphinx New Member

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    Been friends with benefits with this chick for a while now and we've done everything except for sex. And if we did I would be her first. She has been talking about it a lot recently, saying shes been having dreams and what not about me fuckin her. Anyone else had a similar experience or just willing to give some advice? I would totally fuck her but I just dont know how the feelings afterwards would be.
     
  2. Improvolone

    Improvolone New Member

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    So talk about it with her
     
  3. -=Likwid=-

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    just a warning if you decide to go for it, that it will change your relationship (whatever it is at the time) in a major way.
     
  4. AR

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    I agree with Likwid for two reasons: 1) sex changes a lot of things and 2) this would be her first time doing it with anyone.

    So yeah. Talk with her.
     
  5. Nismotic

    Nismotic Swat came into my house...disrespected my family..

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    If you two are mad cool, don't do it. It'll fuck things up.

    If you're not tight w/her, fuck away. but beware: emotional baggage carries a long way
     
  6. LS Boy

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    wait....how can you be FRIENDS WITH BENIFITS with someone if you havent had sex with them? :confused:
     
  7. Kirk Hinrich

    Kirk Hinrich New Member

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    i consider friends that I fool around with as friends with benefits.
     
  8. Original

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    You assholes gonna make me define Friends w/ Benefits?
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Friends_with_benefits

    Some people don't think of it as "just fucking" ;)

    But like everyone else said, since you will be her first, she may be very emotional towards the whole idea. Talk to her, get her feelings about it. If she really wants to, and you do too, be ready for her to be more attached and possibly expect less fooling around.
     
  9. Tugga

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    I reckon you should go for it, if you are tight as and really good mates. you know each other inside out anyway. BUT only have sex with her if you want the relationship to go down the long term investment route.

    Otherwise it will fuck the friendship up
     
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  11. Shelby500

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    been there done that, dont do it
     
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    My thoughts exactly
     
  13. sphinx

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    yeah we're not that tight so i dont think that imma be doing anything like that with her.
     
  14. chica&buddies

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    :werd:

    however, onto a girl's point of view here. ;) ... every girl has a place for her first. more likely than not, every girl gets attached to the guy that takes her virginity. :hs: of course that "feeling" for the guy dwindles as time goes by. :)

    even though you want to get laid, you might want to consider the possible repercussions of your actions. this girl MIGHT turn emotional on you, regardless if you tell her upfront that dating IS NOT in the picture... AT ALL. girls are nuts, and they think that they can change people :rofl:... especially those with penii. (one of these days we'll all learn ;))
     
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    I'd avoid it... it just doesn't seem like a good idea to me to fuck for a "fuck's sake" for the first time... i dunno... like chica said we all have our place for our first cut out in our hearts... it's there forever... i'm really glad mine was with my first true love... and i think it would be less of a fond memory if it hadn't been... I'll admit i'm probably in the minority in that respect, and i feel lucky if that's the case...

    but i just don't think fucking around like that is a good idea... wait till it's a special moment... commit to at least trying a relationship for a while... and then see what happens.... if it works out, the sex will be even better...
     
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    It doesn't sound like it's what you want, so don't do anything you don't want to
     
  17. [HRT]Squirrel Master

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    sounds like she LIKES you.... more than friends with bennefits. I would be careful with that one.
     
  18. strik9

    strik9 Verbing weirds language.

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    fuck her dry

    she lied to you and isnt a virgin
     

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