should i even be her friend, i'm in defense mode

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  1. quamen

    quamen New Member

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    I dated this girl a couple years back and from the start she was not a good gf. She lied to me several times, cheated on me several times and overall my trust was not there for her at all. A couple years has now passed, and I ran into her the other day. We talked for about 1 hr, and she apologized and said she is not the same person anymore and what not. She wants to hang out with me, but i feel like even being her friend is a waste of time? I want to believe her when she said she has changed, but in the past she lied to my face so many times that i'm just thinking even her friendship is a waste of my time.
     
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    I wouldn't bother, that train has past get on the next one.
     
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    depends on if you feel like you want to be an emotional cushion for her while she goes around fucking other guys. Personally I'd rather be hanging out with chicks that want only me but that's your call.
     
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    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    this is something she can only show through her actions

    her words mean nothing
     
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    thanks guys for the replies.
     

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