LGBT Should I do it?

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  1. Naturally Baked

    Naturally Baked Active Member

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    My mom just sent me that in e-mail :hs:
     
  2. Naturally Baked

    Naturally Baked Active Member

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    hwo do I respond?
     
  3. novo

    novo Pokey Man OT Supporter

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    sounds like a good time to me, but you should do it face to face.
     
  4. RedGoober4Life

    RedGoober4Life New Member

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    I would respond by saying that there is something, but assuring that it is not anything terrible, and that you'd like to talk in person about it.

    I wouldn't tell her in an email nor would I let it go by not responding until I see her again.
     
  5. Priest Tango

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    stop being a bitch and tell her you want to talk to her face to face, and then actually follow through on it. she took the first huge step in resolving an obvious problem. i would kill for a certain someone to be able to do that. talking can iron out ALOT of kinks in the hose.
     
  6. elevator

    elevator The tenants think it's wonderful! ヽ(´ OT Supporter

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    sounds like the perfect opportunity...
     
  7. RyRy

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    Dude she knows just tell her. :hug:
     
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  8. stevenlk

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    go for it, let her know. she has an idea she is your mom they know these things. she said she loves and cares for you she should be understanding.
     
  9. camarosrool

    camarosrool yes i am

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    hahahaa this

    she so knows
     
  10. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    no better time than now
     
  11. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    Good luck. Be strong. Be calm and give them time to digest this news.
     
  12. Macbeth

    Macbeth That's illogical... OT Supporter

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    Sounds just she's just looking for clarification for her uncertain guesses. Now is the best time to tell her, and you may not get a chance like this again.
     
  13. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    What did you do to her?

    Either way, you should have an honest conversation with her...
     
  14. RougeOgre

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    As a Mom... just tell her. She loves you and she always will. As the others have said, she probably suspects anyway.

    You know your Mom, unless it is some religous proscription... it won't matter to her. It might take her a little while to adjust to the idea, but if you can talk it out like adults...it will be oK.

    Trust me, there are much worse/scary/ more heartbreaking things you could tell us.
     
  15. dude101

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    ^^^^^ :werd: best of luck if you do decide to tell her..but from what I've read just now your moms sounds like a cool beans caring person..So I'm guessing she wouldn't care that your a fairy...
     
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    So how did it go?
     
  17. JS1

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    I told my mom face-to-face and now she hates me. I wish I had saved myself the travel time and expense and just e-mailed her.
     
  18. Macbeth

    Macbeth That's illogical... OT Supporter

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    No worse than being forced by my peers to come out, and letting them tag along. They were in the doorway watching me come out to my mother. It was not pretty. Although she's never spoken of it again, and there's no ill feelings.

    Still wasn't pretty. :mamoru:
     
  19. Priest Tango

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    updayes NB?
     
  20. brokengold

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    His gayness is incidental to his depression. Coming out to his mother will not improve the situation immediately.
     
  21. XPX

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    Uhmm....so? what happened?
     
  22. brokengold

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    TS got banned....






    ...again.
     
  23. camarosrool

    camarosrool yes i am

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    whoever is in your av

    I love him
     
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    Damn what for this time?! :rofl:
     
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