SO is 27, I'm 22. I've only had one relationship in the past, towards the end of high school / first year of college for 1.5 years. We were good friends for about 2 years before we hooked up. We've been dating for ~6 months or so. Everything was great for the first 4 months but lately it has changed into arguing about (IMO) ridiculous shit. The other morning I woke up feeling like shit, couldn't sleep, so I got up, went to the bathroom, packed a bowl and brought it back to bed to share with her. After that I figured I would head to the store and grab some stuff to make her some breakfast once she fell asleep to surprise her. In the meantime I had grabbed a blanket because it was smurfing cold in the apartment. Come back, , and lounge around for a minute, and she starts complaining about me not being under the same blanket as her... this progresses into "you're so repulsed by the thought of being under the same blanket as me" and eventually the "you don't want me anymore" blah blah blah. I reassured her this wasn't the case and that honestly I was planning on getting up and making breakfast for her - THIS turns into "oh of course that's a convenient defense" Finally I calm her down and everything's fine for the rest of the day until I'm getting ready to drive back to my place (2.5 hrs away). She asks me "do you want to break up?" WTF? She says she couldn't get me to look at her all day. While laying on the couch watching TV she would look into my eyes for a few seconds, so I would look back at her and smile. I would ask her if anything's wrong - she says "nothing " and smiles - so I assume nothing is wrong and we go about the day. Then as I'm about to leave she springs the "do you want to break up" on me. I say of course not... something is obviously still wrong from her silence so I ask her a few more times and she says nothings wrong, so I give her a kiss and an "I love you" (which wasn't returned for the first time ever, eventually I get one back when I get home) and I'm off on my drive as it's getting late. Today at work she sends me a text... Her: Would you want me to come out and see you if I took a week off of vacation, my computer is fucked and I can't do any work, but if not no big deal. Me: Sure that would be great, could you come out tomorrow though if you decide to? Her: y tomorrow Me: I don't know, I just have a lot of stuff on my mind and my brain is going at a million miles an hour. I'd just like a day by myself if that's OK Her: Obviously you have something going on, I won't come out at all this week. If you want to break up just say it already According to her friends that have known her longer than I have, she tends to be with a guy for a while and seem to get tired of them after a while and moves on. I don't want to be that "next guy" that's left with his tail between his legs. Am I asking too much of this chick? We just finished spending 4 straight days NON-STOP with each other (as we do every weekend), as I live on the other side of the state than her, as I will for another 2 weeks. In the past she's said "if you need some space I hope you know you can just tell me and it will be OK" so that's exactly what I did. When we are not arguing everything is great and she is beyond special to me, but I feel really unappreciated and that any of my efforts to show her I care are worth nothing. Long read I know, but what do you guys think?