SRS Should I ask

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  1. gman427

    gman427 New Member

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    Well, there this girl who one of my best friends, and I like her a lot. Idk she always sit next to me, and we always talk personal stuff, but idk if that just because we are good friends, or what. Should I ask her on a date?
     
  2. DarkDruid

    DarkDruid The Power of The Awesome

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    I would say be honest and try a date. If you are best friends and your first date or two don't work out you should be able to bounce back just fine.

    My opinon atleast.
     
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    Arclight Hypercube

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    If she stopped hanging out with you tomorrow, and you never saw her again. Would you regret not having at least tried to date her?

    If yes, then ask.

    Whatever will be, will be.
     
  4. Dysfnctnl85

    Dysfnctnl85 IT/Apple/Rotary/(D)SLR Crew

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    Seize the day my friend, seize the day.
     
  5. Dysfnctnl85

    Dysfnctnl85 IT/Apple/Rotary/(D)SLR Crew

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    My question would be -- do girls think this is creepy?
     
  6. gman427

    gman427 New Member

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    Well, we kind of do that already. We always stare at each other, and she sits on my lap, and all that other stuff.
     
  7. Kirbys Autumn

    Kirbys Autumn Mrs. Kirby McSpic

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    I'd say go for it. :)
     
  8. Dreams2Reality

    Dreams2Reality saywhat

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    How old are you guys?
     
  9. gman427

    gman427 New Member

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    In middle school, but if she say no I would hate to lose that friend ship. But I really like her.
     
  10. onslaught61

    onslaught61 OT Supporter

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    she sits on your lap..and all that other stuff. sounds like both of you guys aren't making an initiative for what you both want.
     
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    i say go for it b4 there's too much awkwardness built up from years of unrequited feelings. and at that age i'd think it would be a bit easier to bounce back as friends if things don't work out (at least that was the case when i was in middle school)
     

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