should i ask this girl out v. friend

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  1. victimizati0n

    victimizati0n New Member

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    ok, so i was partying during st pattys day and got wasted (you dont need to say it, iwishyouwerebeer :rolleyes: )

    but anyways i was with a few people, all of them were my friends

    it was the first time in a looong time i got super fucking drunk and i just found out the other day that one of my chick friends stayed with me the whole night, helped me up the stairs, helped me get into bed, etc.

    i dont really remember that at all, but someone mentioned it to me, and it really got me thinking.. nobody else did jack shit other than watch me and laugh when i did stupid stuff but she seemed to care enough to help me out while i was gone

    she has been my friend for some time, but i was really surprised when i found out what she did :dunno:

    should i ask her out, or leave it alone and not ruin/make a friendship awkward?

    tell me what you think :x:
     
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    Yahdude New Member

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    i've been trying to answer this one for myself for months.

    great friend, friendship developed while we were both taken, now we've both been single for a while...don't know that i want to jeopardize a great friendship lol. she's got hot friends too.

    i don't envy your position.
     
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  5. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    It's a strange position to be in. I've been there before. On one hand, it's amazingly sweet to have a woman that obviously cares a lot for you. On the other hand, it's unattractive to a woman to put yourself in that situation in the first place. All that aside, however, I say if you want to ask her out, ask her out. Fuck worrying about ruining a friendship.
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :bowrofl: It's been along time since you got wasted? Really?
     
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    Try to recreate the situation, only you are going to attempt to deceive her this time. Make yourself a cranberry and vodka only make sure it is only cranberry in there. Keep drinking these "cranberry and vodkas". After like an hour or two, pretend like you are a really drunk. Approach this chick with a box and have her open it up. Bam.















    Dick in a box.
     
  8. victimizati0n

    victimizati0n New Member

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    this is how it works for me

    drunk - drink, get tipsy, get drunk, remember the night (for instance, i remembered trying to fuck the other chick i knew it was a bad thing to do, but i did it anyways

    wasted - no recollection of the previous night, couldn't stand up, threw up everywhere, etc.

    its been a while since that happened.


    but anyways, thanks for the comments, and i appreciate any other comments as well
     
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    Do0blE p0sT!!!
     
  11. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    In for this.
     
  12. victimizati0n

    victimizati0n New Member

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    lulz maybe

    i need to be drunk as an excuse though :mamoru:

    she has seen my dick before though :dunno:
     
  13. tenxia

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    She cares but doesn't mean she wants to go out with you. I mean, you could have alcohol poisoning, who knows?

    She's a good friend looks like. Thank her.
     
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    victimizati0n New Member

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    of course, dont worry im not the type of person who thinks if a girl looks at me she wants to go out and have sex in the back seat of my car

    i was just surprised she actually helped me instead of watch and laugh at me being stupid like everyone else

    me personally, if i was around some friends who were drunk, i wouldnt do any of that stuff unless i had feelings for them, but im just an asshole anyways :o
     
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    tenxia OT Supporter

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    Is she normally the caring type to her friends (or ppl in general)?

    If she's usually a bitch to everyone but nice to you, maybe there's something there.
     
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    victimizati0n New Member

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    she doesnt seem to be, i mean she is a nice person, but i havent been around her to know if she does that shit with others

    and she isnt really a bitch so i cant say anything about that
     
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    XaPU!M Active Member

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    Talk about reading into things way to much.

    I've dragged (male) friends home and into their beds and gave them a garbage can to keep close and I don't want to date any of them.

    If you want to ask her out do it, but if this is your reasoning for suddenly thinking of her in this way then I'd forget about it.
     
  18. victimizati0n

    victimizati0n New Member

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    im thinking based on how i am

    i wouldnt help someone around because it is their fault they drank too much, they should have controlled their drinking so they didnt get to that point, you know?

    unless it was a chick i wanted to bang :naughty:

    but seriously, im just going off of what i have heard from other ppl that she stayed with me the whole night, i have no idea what the others were doing, im guessing laughed at me falling down the stairs and shit
     
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    you may be reading way too much in this. ive helped friends who are girls while wasted that i have no interest in.

    have you ever thought about asking her out prior to this? or is it that this act of kindness has all of a sudden made you feel like you should?
     
  20. jcr847

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    I;ve been there :hsugh:

    just be prepared to ruin the friendship if it doesnt go as planned...

    with that said, I wouldnt ask her out based on that behavior alone, she could just be the nurturing type etc.. but if you have feelings for her beyond friendship go for it, you only live once...
     
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    Dont go solely on how you are. I, like you, likely wouldnt have helped the person but girls, not all, but some, are wired differently, and she may have just wanted to help a friend
     
  22. chlywly

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    Sounds like she's a real friend, do you find her attractive? Do you have lots in common. Often friendship is the basis of a solid romantic relationship, so its really up to you... You shouldn't be coming here to ask for advice regarding this, it depends solely on how you feel about it and whether you would like to explore your relationship with her.
     
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    This is the worst reason in the history of reasons to contemplate asking someone out.
     
  24. chica&buddies

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    You are way over thinking it, I have had girls do the same thing for me but they were not interested in dating, just good friends.

    Worst reason, ever
     

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