So I am currently technically "single" though my heart does belong to someone. My ex boyfriend, who was a complete and total ass, keeps emailing me and asking me to come over, for the past few weeks. I do NOT like him, or want to see him/ date him/ etc. He is a social recluse and wants to start getting out more, and wants me to come down and see his daughter (she is in town and absolutely loved me when we dated) Ugh, how do I say no without being a total bitch about it? "That would not be a good idea", "I'm just not that into you", "go bark up someone elses tree", lol I dunno! What is the easiest way to reject a somewhat sensitive emotionally unstable guy without crushing him completely?