I was out for a drink with a girl I fancied like hell 2 months back. Things went great. She was coming on fairly strong, and when I made a move she suddenly got cold and explained how she was having prob with guys at the moment. She was engaged [kinda, she kicked him out though],but she had always said that she hadn't a BF and was lonely. She's also 7 1/2yrs + than me. Well the second time we met up, last week, I got mixed signs, but I didn't make any moves. I'm kicking myself now. Kicking hard. I hope I haven't lost her. I've texted with no reply.