Shit I dunno what I'm doing. Oh and hello Vag.

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  1. DrKillByDeath

    DrKillByDeath New Member

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    Yeah I realize I'm not a regular here but the main board wouldn't give a shit about this.

    So I'm pushin 21 and have never been out with anyone. I don't think I'm stupid or fat or anything, its just never happened. Then again I've never been very interested in anyone either. Sure I've had some crushes in highschool but wasn't ever anything special.

    Now I'm working on a documentary and my writing partner is all I can think about. And I think the feeling might be mutual. Is it normal for people you've only known for a couple of days to all of a sudden be calling you at midnight 'cause they're bored?

    I even had a dream about her last night where she came over and we hung out and had fun and then I left to go do something and got in a car where my driver was Ice Cube. All of a sudden we were in Mexico and I was shooting at cars that were chasing us 'cause Ice Cube told me to and we got caught by Federalis. All I wanted to do was to go back home to her.

    What the hell is this?
     
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    vodkacollins New Member

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    its a crush
     
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    Ask her on a date. Don't over think it, just do it. :x:
     
  5. nofriends

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    Take her out to dinner (some place casual) and something fun like go-karts or mini-golf. Something that you can both have a good time in a relaxed environment and not have the pressure of a "date".

    If she is calling you at midnight because she is "bored", she definetely has interest in you, so make the move and get the ball rolling.
     
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    I wouldent do dinner though, maybe ice cream or something.

    In my experiance girls are very nervous to eat infront of someone they like. :o

    but yea if shes calling you cause she's "bored" ask her on a damn date. The worst thing she could say is no, and then your right back where you were.

    Some of the best advice I have gotten from this forum is to man up and just do what you want to do.
    Want to ask her on a date? Do it.
    Want to kiss her and you feel its the right time? Do it.

    This advice has really helped me in the past few months! :bigthumb:
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :mamoru: @ dream

    Just ask her to do something non-school work related. Like others said, you can just say "hey, lets go get something to eat" or even go the whole mile and ask her on a date :dunno:
     
  8. DrKillByDeath

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    I guess I'm also afraid that if I do ask her out and she declines then things will get very awkward while we make this doc together.
     
  9. Bugalu

    Bugalu OT Supporter

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    got to weigh the good and the bad...

    i still think you should ask her out
     
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    there are ways to ask her on an actual date without being creepy about it. if she declines, dont make a big deal about it, just go on with your day. if you dont make a fuss about it, neither will she. its always better to know than to be left wondering
     
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    Indio, check your messages, I sent you a link to download (for free) a decent PUA book. Might be too late for this current situation, but it'll give you an idea of what to do and what not to do, in general terms. As I say in the message, don't follow it - or any other PUA book for that matter - word for word, but instead just internalize the general concepts.
     
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    Ask her on a date. Don't call it a date obviously, but just ask if she wants to go out to a movie or something with you. Be decisive. Know what you want to do with her. Know that you want to make a move on her. If the date is going well, be aggressive and go for a kiss. She might get the wrong impression if the date goes well and you don't make a move implying that you just want to be friends.
     
  14. LBFilmGuy

    LBFilmGuy LOL why u mad tho?

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    she wants it.

    get it boy!
     
  15. DrKillByDeath

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    Shooting's all done. The plan now is to invite the team out for celebratory drinks where I'll ask her out at the end of the night. :noes:
     
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    Good luck!
     
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    It's definitely a lot easier said than done (at first) but yea, you need to hesitate less and act more. Keep us posted!
     
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    Yeah, if she calls you at midnight just because she is bored..she definitely has some kind of interest. Good luck!
     
  19. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Don't chicken out!
     
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    Congrats on finishing the documentary and good luck with her :bigthumb:
     
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    Come on man, don't PLAN to ask her out. Just do it!

    Right now. You have her number right? Pick it up and ask her out.

    All you have to say is "Hey, I'm going to do 'x' this weekend, do you want to come with?"

    *'x' being whatever the fuck you want to do and not the drug lol

    It's as simple as that. If you plan to ask her out, it will fail. I know, because I have "planned" to ask girls out so many times in my life and I have like a 5% success rate with it (this was before I was married).

    The dates that I got were always in a moment of spontaneity where I didn't overthink it too much.
     
  22. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    UPDATE! Did you ask her out or chicken out?
     
  23. DrKillByDeath

    DrKillByDeath New Member

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    No asking as of yet. Last time I talked to her she said she'd be busy all week and I'm actually quite busy for the week myself.










    I'm a pussy.
     
  24. shiizz0n

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    "If you think you can, or if you think you can't; either way, you're right."
    - Henry Ford

    Oh yeah, one note of advice: "Women love a man with a plan" (from Mars & Venus on a Date). This applies to just about everything.

    So make plans. Preferably before you talk with her.
     
  25. sponger235

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    ^exactly
    just hang out with her more and the situation will handle itself. theres no hurt just asking to hang out
     

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