Shit, hot girl coming over tomorrow, halp

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  1. Alexqzilla

    Alexqzilla New Member

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    I should start off with saying I'm 18. I guess we're watching 300 and making a pizza, but first it was supposed to be Tuesday, then she moved it to Thursday, and now it's set for Saturday. I'm not exactly a good looking guy and I've been owned and blown off pretty hard in the past, probably like most people. Assuming all goes well, though, and she does sincerely want to hang out, our house is really shitty and kinda small. I don't know what her standards are on that. I'm not getting my hopes up any further than her coming over, cooking the pizza with me and watching the movie, but I'm nervous as hell nonetheless. I tend to make an idiot of myself out of ridiculously hot females. Once again, I'm not really a good looking dude and I don't know why someone like herself would really want to hang out with me, and I've been pondering it for quite some time now. I think it might be because she just graduated. I don't know. I think I need help on this :|

    Oh, I'm the guy who got circumcised earlier in the year, hello again :wavey:
     
  2. verdiocchi

    verdiocchi Oh snap!

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    Just relax and be yourself. If you're nervous you'll try too hard and that doesn't tend to go well. I'm not entirely sure what your problem is besides the fact that you're nervous.

    Oh, and I thought 300 wasn't out until Tuesday...?
     
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    Torrents + DVD Burner :coolugh:
     
  4. verdiocchi

    verdiocchi Oh snap!

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    Well played. :h5:
     
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    just be yourself like you are hanging out with another dude but don't be a jackass, if you do that she will pick up on how comfortable you are and she will be comfortable making the situation A LOT less nerv-racking. I know it is really hard to do, really fucking hard to do but if you can help it, try not to think about fucking her at all tonight and dont even count on giving her a kiss. Im serious, in the back of your head just imagine that it is not going to happen tonight, maybe in the future it will but NOT tonight, it sound stupid but she will pick up on those vibes and want you even more fella, thats all i got to say, enjoy the movie and get tombstone brick oven or a good digionro FTMFW, im really fucking hungry. FUCK.
     
  6. Alexqzilla

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    Yeah dude, Tombstone wins

    And I'm not going to get my hopes up on anything, you're right. At least I know if it goes well I'd be setting up the field to hang out a second time
     
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    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    You have already placed her value far above yours in your mind, which is guaranteed to cause you to act desperate and needy.

    Desperation and neediness are kryptonite to a girls' attraction.
     
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    Am I doomed?

    Maybe I should smoke a bit before she comes :noes:
     
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    This is what I came here to post. :bigthumb:
     
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    :h5: keeps that mind set, remember NOTHING is going to happen.
     
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    That's my plan, I'm just going to constantly remind myself of a few things

    Nothing's going to happen, it would mean something went in my favor and the universe would explode :)

    She's the one who proposed we hang out

    Looks aren't everything?

    300 is a good fucking movie and she hasn't seen it yet

    I'm moving soon anyway, so no worries
     
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    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    First of all, why did you allow her to change the day of the date?
     
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    First night, she had to work late and was tired

    Then when Thursday came around, she ended up getting called into work or something

    So now it's set to saturday. I don't really have tons of experience with wimminz
     
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    Id say yes because it will force you to stop caring or treating her like shes a "hot princess" and more like the avg. chick that comes through your place every other day. Thus forcing you to lose value of her. I think it's pretty much too late though. But godspeed and I'd say use it as a learning point. Notice her actions and interactions. Odds are she will treat you like a tool.
     
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    maskednegator Kosmonaut, best we've got...

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    call her up and cancel. tell her you can do it sunday evening.
     
  16. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    you have effectively communicated to her that your schedule is wide open, and you have nothing better to do than cater to her needs
     
  17. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    You need to get some confidence in yourself and stop worrying about what she thinks....Only then will you ever succeed.
     
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    :wtc:
     
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    Well, she suggested either friday or saturday, I told her Friday wouldn't work, and I was being honest.
     
  20. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    thats good, at least you weren't 100% available
     
  21. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    its not about her having low value, its about him having equal or greater value
     
  22. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    And if you find this advice to be literally impossible - as in not possible - to follow... If you think "don't be insecure", "be confident", and any other variation on "transmogrify your emotional state at will" to be no course of action at all... then learn what your behavior WOULD be like if you were not scared by a woman's hotness, and carefully set about emulating that behavior. Other people have done this before you and they eventually met with more success than guys who were naturally like that already.

    As for availability... the crude sense that mainstream culture has of "game" comes down to "do i call", "do i meet up", and "do I ask her out", because those are the only tools available. You can achieve the same effect as "not calling" with, like, three words.

    Good luck with this girl :)
     
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    I probably should have given a bit of backstory. I've drooled at this girl from a distance for almost a year, and one day I just approached her and got it off my chest that I thought she was absolutely gorgeous, she turned red, I stumbled back to my seat, and we waved every once in a blue moon after that. Aside from that, I've never talked or hung out with her. Eventually I found her on myspace and threw her a friend thing, and we kinda had small talk. I'm moving kinda soon, and she suggested we hang out at some point in time before I do, and that's how we got these plans going.

    Oh, and I thought I'd just say that half of what gave me the balls to approach her in the first place was because of one of Yail's posts a while ago :wavey:


    God I hope I don't make an idiot out of myself again
     
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  24. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    :wavey:

    That's what its about, folks.

    Real world results.

    Forget style points, forget tactics, forget the bullshit.

    See what you want, and go after it.

    All that said, I think you should take her on an action date like mini-golf or bowling and have some fun.
     
  25. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    It's good that you're moving... she might be horny from the separation anxiety :o

    Try to relax and suck on her nipples, she will feel better
     

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