She's scared of sexual positions?

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  1. _Kanwisher!

    _Kanwisher! Guest

    My girlfriend doesn't enjoy having me lay on her, or her lay on me. She said it to me online like she was getting it off her chest. It was odd and upsetting to hear figuring that's one of the things I enjoy. I can honestly say she has the same feelings for me, she just genuinely isn't ready for that. :wtf: Is there ever hope??!
     
  2. sleepysigphi

    sleepysigphi New Member

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    Buy her a karma sutra book. And go over it together and find positions you both may like.
     
  3. 127.0.0.1

    127.0.0.1 New Member

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    so she likes sex, just not having to get in position to do so?
     
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    Ask why, duh.
     
  5. DesignerAddic71

    DesignerAddic71 RIP Luther Vandross 1951-2005

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    so what position would she prefer?
     
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    Repost PENCIL DICK

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    Laying on the side = :wtf:

    Although apparently it feels better according to my girl :dunno:
     
  7. Laurel

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    doggystyle?
     
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    I love teh spoons
     
  10. Sionell89

    Sionell89 I grew up when I wasn't looking

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    there is always doggie style
     
  11. Laurel

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    doggystyle is very quickly becoming my favorite
     
  12. make her stick her legs way up in the air and tell her to grab her ankles!!...haha!!:naughty:
     
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    russd10089 New Member

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    I think he means that they aren't sexual, and she doesn't wanna be in a position that feels sexual, cause she's not ready to take that step yet.
     
  14. johan

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    It's not the positions that's the problem, she's trying to tell you she doesn't really want sex at all. You can be really horny and also really scared about sex at the same time.

    Talk to her. If she's not ready...well then, guess you'll have to back off for a while.
     
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    This has to be the strangest thing I've ever heard.
    Either, 1. she has some strange sexual abuse story from when she was younger. or 2. she's masking something she doesn't want to say straight out, such as what Johan said.
     
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    my girl likes all the positions, i'm lucky
     
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    Sionell89 I grew up when I wasn't looking

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    Now that's a switch. Revenge of the sheep.
     
  19. TankedOutSuicide

    TankedOutSuicide These aren't the DJs were looking for...

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    i love when my girl lays down on her back an i thrust full power while gripin her hips.......best for your money :big grin:
     
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    I love it when my SO grabs my hips when he's thrusting, very hot. :bigthumb:
     

  22. New positions are so fun- i could spend all night thinking of new ones...... :bigthumb:
     
  23. badlizzykay

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    maybe she's self-concious or something? there are tons of positions besides those you could check out.
     

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