Here's the deal. She's trapped in a marriage at the moment due to financial issues. She doesn't want to get out of a marriage with 3 kids and totally ruin things for her children because a divorce at the moment would cause nothing but financial problems. There's no emotional, physical relationship between her and her husband and they really aren't friends. They just live together and raise 3 kids. He bad mouths her, doesn't care for her, says she looks stupid in clothes, tells her she's fat...you know the run of the mill dickhead. I'm in love with her. Vice versa. I know she's leaving him. I trust her that much. Always have. I've been knowing her for a very long time. I stay away from anything to do with her unless she comes to me which is not that often. We only are able to talk through email or if we meet each other out. She's got three kids. Do you expect her to have time? I just became single in July again after staying with someone for reasons I shouldn't have. It was basically the same situation that she's in but not with the financial tie-ins. I know for a fact this woman feels the same for me and I pretty much trust that she's not lying about everything she says. For the type of person she is and she got married because she got pregnant. That's the only reason. They were actually split up when she found out she was pregnant. He proposed to her by tossing a ring to her and said "might as well". I'm single, and I don't have a problem waiting. But just for how long? I mean, I just got out of a relationship that wasn't right and now all I do is think that she is right. I don't know. I'm just content with the way things are now and she is beyond worth any wait. I know she is going to end up leaving but can't at the moment. Don't say "don't mess with a married woman" because it's easier said than done. If I were married, I wouldn't want someone messing with my wife. But I wouldn't be treating her like shit and total disrespectful. I would also love her more than anything in the world. So think if you were in this situation, I can't think of anyone else in the world that is more perfect than she is.